I'm really hurt by it too. That people keep things secret from one another when we all thought of each other as a group. But really after what happened... I could care less about people who said that they would always be there for one another. Everyone is just a user, including myself, just some more than others.
I dont think our group is splitting... it is changing. and it was inevitable that it happen in highschool. I mean, how could it not? everything is different.
but I dont think that it *changing* is a bad thing. by changing, yes... dynamics shift to fit the new situation.
think of it this way. friendships are much more important than "groups" groups dont mean anything.. they are just there as a backup for actual relationships and a self esteem booster.
as long as you have the people who really matter, it doesnt matter what "group" they belong to.
plus the "groups" only last until we are out of school then the real world sets in. the REAL WORLD where people don't judge you by where you eat lunch or if you are in AP classes or if you go to arsagas every fucking night
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and it was inevitable that it happen in highschool.
I mean, how could it not?
everything is different.
but I dont think that it *changing* is a bad thing.
by changing, yes... dynamics shift to fit the new situation.
think of it this way.
friendships are much more important than "groups"
groups dont mean anything.. they are just there as a backup for actual relationships and a self esteem booster.
as long as you have the people who really matter, it doesnt matter what "group" they belong to.
plus
the "groups" only last until we are out of school
then the real world sets in.
the REAL WORLD
where people don't judge you by where you eat lunch
or if you are in AP classes
or if you go to arsagas every fucking night
it is just pretend.
the whole group logic.
we have friend ships.
who cares if we have a "group"
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