What do you mean, we never talk?

[popsbabypenguin]

Just because I haven't posted anything of substance since May and its now October

Comments

[lissie930]

While I am sorry that you're going through such a hard and painful thing, and that the kids took it hard, I am hopeful for you too. Sending vibes.

[popsbabypenguin]

Thanks, Lissie. I am feeling very hopeful for me too.

[jnapier]

Not to belittle your post, but I was not surprised. I knew it was more a question of when, then of if.

If there is any help I can offer, please let me know. You know how to reach me. If you have questions about the male perspective of this, please let me know how I can help. You know I have been through almost exactly what you are going through now.

[popsbabypenguin]

You, Denis, have an inside track, so I knew you wouldn't be surprised at all. I appreciate your help through all this very much. And I will be calling on you again. You are the best... thanks.

[jenniferciroli]

I'm sorry to hear that, and am sending lots of vibes that things continue along their amicable path. It's not an easy road regardless, so any little shred of amicability helps (says the child who grew up with feuding divorced parents).

Hang in there...

[popsbabypenguin]

Thanks... Having gone through 3 divorces with my mom I knew exactly how *not* to do things. Having things go easier for the kids is worth just about any awkwardness on my part.

[sabowin]

*hugs* Best wishes as you go through this difficult time. Been there, done that, and it CAN remain amicable. Good luck!

[symphonymom]

*hugs* I had been thinking I hadn't seen a post from you in awhile! Take care of yourself and your kids.