General

[pornqueenie]

General hello to anyone

Starting to get stressed about the wedding now!!

For many many reasons

1) Have begun the nightly nightmares of everything going wrong, and so far every dream has been different, although this is the least of my problems

2) MONEY!! MONEY!! MONEY!! I think im just going to be able to squeeze through, but i am going to be skint for

Comments

[aka_dave]

Ok the dress... Everyone does! My cousin did! It's your brain going ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

Your sister will put up or shut up! Tell your mum and she will sort her out! yes you're being a spoilt brat but sod her!

Money is always an issue! But things will pan out! Always do!

If you want to do something drastic for weightloss, there are options... Like the no food diet! Basically all soup and no solids for 4 weeks!

Or 3 months... Like someone else I know did!

Or even go veggie! Cut all carbs out after 4 pm too. All work!

Panicking is normal, chill and relax. Find at least 4 days a month where you can escape it all!

[kimmiky]

Aw honey, I can't imagine what it must feel like. :/ But I've always had the impression you are coping with things well and you have done a wonderful job with the wedding arrangements so far! I can't really advise you about your doubts for things like the dress but just try and remember why you decided on that (and everything else) in the past, I hope that will put your mind at ease a little bit. *snuggles*

[kimmiky]

By the way if you want help with anything at all, I have nothing to do (excluding the Muse gigs) for the next 2 months so I am here to help you! Just let me know whatever I can do!!

Sorry this is so long!

[nai_xharis]

Try to remember that it's only one day! Your marriage will last a lot longer and is ultimately more important than the wedding. You don't need to be any smaller for this one day, you need to be you - that's who's getting married, that's who all your friends and family will be there to see. If you're feeling shit about yourself, don't punish yourself, but pamper yourself! Paint your nails, have a long bath, etc. You're going to look amazing.

It might be fucking expensive, but it'll be totally worth it, and like aka_dave said, it'll work out in the end!

As for the dress, you couldn't have got it if it wasn't the one. Take a deep breath and trust your original intuition. Maybe you're just so nervous at the whole thing that you're focusing your nerves onto the dress? (I do this a lot when I'm stressed!)

Finally, the sister... I know this may sound rude, but she needs a slap! It's your day (*cough*...And Mike's) and she should be honoured to be taking part. Possibly she's a bit jealous so digging her heels in slightly? If she's going

[morti]

Punch your sister.

You have plenty of sympathisers, I'm a problem-solver. :D

Have some kind of fake Internet hug for now and I'll give you a real one when I see you. I have no advice to offer (that I think you might take) beyond what's already been said though.

[y8tes]

When you have stressy times like this, all you need to remember is the 2 absolute truths:

I only like Wonderfully special people
Every event I attend is awesome

Therefore my coming to the wedding coupled with the fact that I love you two to bits means that the wedding will be extra-special sooper-dooper a++ brill.

So, no need to worry... Its all scientifically perfect!