Comments | poworgen5: Let's talk about sex, babeeeee

poworgen5

Let's talk about sex, babeeeee

Aug 22, 2005 01:53

b/c I need to.....and I need to with folks who seem to be pretty open with their sex lives and sexuality.....AND NON JUDGEMENTAL!!!!! There will be NO JUDGEMENTS HERE.....just us girls talking about our sex live or lack there of ( Read more... )

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toywoman August 22 2005, 21:03:52 UTC

first off, love, let me tell you that you should have no shame. it's wonderful that you would find someone that would bring these feelings out in you. for me, personally, even being a sexual person when scott and i weren't together, i wasn't as comfortable. does that make sense? so yes, the person that you're with makes a big difference in my humble opinion.

any questions that you have feel free to ask:)

poworgen5 August 22 2005, 21:37:03 UTC

I think one big question is birth control, I mean I am reading up on everything and with writing and finishing the youth zine around positive sexuality is a huge help (ironic, don't ya think) but I think it's also just how I feel about myself and what is "normal".....you know? I kinda wish I didn't wait this long to have sex but I also know that it was for a reason....but the feelings that I am having now are driving me insane!! Just hearing his voice is enough to set me off!! It's crazy! But I have won't have sex unless I am on the pill or something else....and I have to make an appointment....blah blah blah....I enjoy having these feelings but damn it's also annoying!!! thank you Ms. Carlie....any advice you have I will appreciate...=)

flood_land August 22 2005, 22:58:40 UTC

still me, different sign on

yes, birth control is fabulous. getting used to it is another story, but by all means it is very important to protect yourself! also, the two of you should consider condoms as a back up plan, just to be super uuuber safe, since of course the pill is never 100% effective. 99.9999995 yes (or something similar LOL), but not 100%.

i'm so so SO happy for you:)

poworgen5 August 23 2005, 03:48:53 UTC

OH yeah, condom is a priority....double protection!!! But birth control (or the pill) is something that I have to do....we have already talked about condoms....no std's or babies.....

I think I make sex a bigger deal in my head than it really it....well, you know what I mean....=)

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pixiesdeal August 23 2005, 01:35:29 UTC

well, my sex life is pretty good as of lately! Kind of reminded me of last year, very much the same thing:)

You know I am very, and I mean VERY open about my sexuality girl, I tell you about it whenever I see you. haha.

I don't know what you want me to say...hmmm. I guess things that turn me on, is basically how Chris really is, I mean, he can easily kiss me and everything will slip away from my mind. his kisses are very sweet, and DAMN, does he know how to take care of a woman. Okay i think i need to call him RIGHT NOW for a booty call hahaha.

I'll put more, don't you worry!;)

poworgen5 August 23 2005, 04:00:19 UTC

no worries....=) I think I just question my feelings sometimes.....and it's nice to know that other women/men go through and feel the same things....and lately I haven't seen him and it's really driving me crazy....just wanting to hear that it's normal I guess that is what I am wanting....I don't know, also since my injury and some of the disabilities that I have from that, it leaves you less desireable and to have someone that you actually like and find you attractive, well it's exciting, you know!

I just want a space that I can share that with those I know and they can share also....I can learn from you ladies....support!!!

pixiesdeal August 23 2005, 04:42:56 UTC

oh yeah for sure girl, it is normal!! Whenever you hear that person, only that person will make you feel the way you feel. It is that sexual awakening. I had it w/Robert and I still have it w/Chris.

and YES girl, trust me, been there too. When you just realize, 'damn they really do like me and are attractive to me too?! WHOA!!' seriously tht is what I thought with both Chris and Robert. They both thought I was cute and thought I was attractive too. I had one of those moments where you look around, and go 'ME?!' kind of a Ducky moment haha

It is all good pati!! Any advice, and I am here for you...remember, it wasn't too long ago, where I was deflowered, like gee, 2 years ago?! DAMN!! LOL

poworgen5 August 23 2005, 05:30:18 UTC

thank you Nadia.....I know I will have more.....there's no stopping me now!!!! haahahahahaha

zinnea August 23 2005, 02:22:04 UTC

Well, check out Planned Parenthood's web site for some great info about birth control and STD prevention. At your age and in your state of health, you're probably going to want to avoid using any homrmonal birth control but there are lots of great methods of BC.

My primary advice would be don't do anything you don't want to do and keep a good sense of humor about yourself. sex should be fun and if it isn't, well, there are lots of ways to express your feelings without it.

Also, be honest and open and COMMUNICATE, even when it feels a little awkward or embarassing.

poworgen5 August 23 2005, 04:08:22 UTC

Thank you Zee...I have gone to the Planned Parenthood website and printed up some different things around birth control, etc. Plus working on the Zine has been extremly helpful!! Plus, I will probably be going to PP b/c of the workers comp thing.....The great thing with this guy is we have known each other for 20 years and the humor is what draws us to each other....I think that is why I am so comfortable around him and we talk about everything, so far and I appreciate that......

I need to write down what you said....thank you again for your advice Zee, it's something I need to consider and think about.....