ATTENTION: Ladies....

[practice_effect]

I have a need for understanding, its tearing at me like a rabid squirrel in my pants O.o......pun intended.......Why is it that you all have to go for a guys nuts at every turn......Know that this is a post of compiled frustrations...which seem to have mounted tonight

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[star_dancer54]

*snorts* I, personally, rarely expect a male to accomodate me. I find myself usually having to accomodate for HIM, rather than the other way around, unless I'm at a dangerously unstable emotional state. I will usually notice extreme mood swings (It's rather hard NOT to), but I have occasionally only noticed after I bite someone's head off. In my own defence, I usually apologize after the fact. Personally, I appreciate when people are trying to keep level around me - helps me find my own stability *grimaces* I think that it's rude to attack a person for being calmer emotionally, unless it's an inflamatory subject like prejudice or politics, and then that's a whole 'nother topic.

[practice_effect]

Well I think I get the term "rare breed", when applied to me now. I was riased to reveer women in all aspects. If ever I laid a hand on a woman, my mother would kill me. And my dad was always the accomodating type when it came to my mother's mood swings. I learned most if not all of my behaviors tward women from him. Chivilry.....a quality/property of a guy that defines wether he is a man, or a boy. I guess you could say I was taught the "old code", knight in shining armor and what not.....though most of the time now-a-days you'll get made fun of for beliefs like those. Even by the women you're holding so high.....Plus, I rarely have to "try" to be level, its just my natural state. If we all were acids basses and buffers, I'd be complete neutral. But even water will explode if you cram enough acid into it ;). So thanks for your input, and "lesson" in the way of women :D hopefully some day i'll be able to, if not completely understand women, atleast know how to be the best "man" for the situations that come along :)

its a catch 22

[thedorkfly]

what about all the great things about girls? lol ok some are worse than others when it comes to this mood swingy bitch fest type thing... and yes i do have this problem... sometimes i dont notice it until its too late... and like jamie said i apologize for my wrong doings... people are infallible... girls have crazy insane hormones... some guys do too... girls and guys are different from one another lol guys do things that bug girls... girls do things that bug guys... in all honestly i have had more trouble out of the females... but gosh darnit... i love them! the overly emotional bitchyness comes with over emotional good times as well :-)

Re: its a catch 22

[practice_effect]

Touche on the guys do to part...i suppose we in general are capable of it. though when it happens for guys...someone usually goes to jail. O.o
Trust me when I say, I can handle bitchiness. My mother is irish, and my grandmother on my dad's side is full blooded italian. OOOOOOh yes....I can handle bitchiness.lol

Game of love.

[mythologikal]

Call me a masochist if you will, but some of the fun is in not knowing. In fact, some might even find most of it there. As the beings we are, we are facinated by the unknown. Conversely, many people lose interest in enigmatic things once they are aware of their workings. Magic tricks for example. People are amazed by it, until they realize you're pulling the wool on em. Then they feel slighted. (No pun intended) I feel if guys understood girls completely, and vice versa, the world would be a lot less interesting. And probably full of alot less people. ;) Food for thought.

Re: Game of love.

[practice_effect]

I agree with your pov for the most part, but then again....let me put a dish or two out there... For this analogy, lets say.."If women were like cars"(which in alot of ways they are ;P) I'm not saying I need to be a veteran mechanic, versed in the internal workings of every machine on the road....I'm wanting more to move from being the "reckless teen driver"(thats right...I admit it) to the "accomplished intermediate".... Because lets face it..you can only properly have fun with a vehicle...without risk of serious harm...(yet another way girls are like cars)...when you have a grasp of how it will react when put in certain situations....so if say you are pushing on the breaks, you're quite certain the car should be slowing...if instead its swerving wildly
....you've got a problem