I need some advice...

[preciousangel1]

I’m COMPLETELY confused and need some advice…

I’ve always pictured myself with a guy who was tall, had broad strong shoulders, dark hair and eyes, and tan skin… Ya know… that all around gorgeous guy!

But he also has to have a great personality. He has to be respectful, treat me right, and we have to have a lot in common.  He has a college

Comments

[__theanalogkid]

whatever happens, happens.

[preciousangel1]

your not much help =(

[kill_krock]

i think you should wait personally. dont do anything, and see if he does more that can convince you hes a legit guy. From the description youve given, he doesnt sound like a guy to get involved with. Im sure hes a good guy, but you got enough crap going on in your life, u dont need a guy whos juggling you and a kid at the same time. I know the feeling tho, also keeping an eye out for the perfect girl thats not there. This isnt the perfect guy, fine. but this guy just seems like too much of a risk for you right now.

i would have commented sooner, but ive been busy as all hell with work and other shit this week, ive been home only to eat and change clothes in my travel bag over the last few days.

[preciousangel1]

Thanks... maybe your right. He likes me a lot and would do anything for me... I just dont know if i wanna get into it, but I dont wanna hurt him either =( He really likes me... hopefully we will distance a little when school starts.

Its just hard =( I dont think I have EVER had a boyfriend that actually treated me right... well one or two of them did, but there were still things they shouldnt have done to me... but I also dont wanna jump at the first one either. =( Being confused sucks...

Its ok... Your not one of the main ppl I was annoyed at... Its more the common ones who post daily and ignore me.

hey

[slim61082]

well im going to sum it up in two words!!!! KID=NO!!!!! you may like the guy, but and this is a huuuuge but, you're 20 years old and frankly sweet heart, you have your own stuff to deal with at this point in your life. that would be a whole nother thing that you don't need to get into at this stage of your life. you need to enjoy the time that you have, and to me that smells or reaks of drama filled that you just don't need to deal with. and im not saying that bc of our relationship, im saying this as a close friend who cares about ya . i hope that this helps you a bit.

Re: hey

[preciousangel1]

I know your just saying it as a friend, and I know I really shouldnt get into a relationship with him yet... but its hard. I think I'm starting to fall for him and I'm scared. He doesnt have visitation rights yet, and he will only see Xander once every like 2 or 3 months when he does get visitation rights. Besides, Me and John already talked and I dont wanna play a mother role in his life unless I know I will be in thier life for a long time. I dont wanna hurt Xander even more by having more ppl come in and out of his life.... Idk... I just have to wait and see what happens with school I guess... Idk...

I miss you a Lot! Message me next time you come online baby. (your still another reason why I'm confused...)

Re: hey

[slim61082]

i know this sweet heart. you don't have to tell me twice. you are not online lol :-P so boo hoo to you lol. you are probably at work right now eh?well i guess ill catch ya lata hun. its my day off tonight, so ill maybe call ya tomorrow morning? just to say hey andto see what you been up to ok? miss ya and love ya loads

Advice

[anonymous]

Idk… I’m just all confused. I mean, I’m not gonna date him till at least after school starts, prolly not till after the first semester. This way I know he will be able to handle all the stress I am under with school and not seeing each other al the time and stuff...this is a good idea go with this and see how it goes if he is willin to stick around than he shouldn't stir you wrong...if not you got me to come to ;-) oh by the way this is Superman ttyl

Re: Advice

[preciousangel1]

I think I will wait too. I mean I do like him the more I spend time with him... I just dont know if I can wait the whole semester. Idk if I can hold out that long... but I'll see.

and I will always bounce back to you ;-)