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tinkerbellx1x in pregnant_teens

Introduction

Jun 25, 2007 22:45

Hi, I'm Jessica, I'm 16 years old and 3 weeks pregnant.
I'm not to sure how to break it to my boyfriend, everytime I bring up having kids one day hes all like "your not pregnant right?" and I keep telling him I'm not. When I do say I want a baby to him he says "no until we're older" and that it will mess our lives up in a big way and everything ( Read more... )

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toria__ June 26 2007, 20:19:10 UTC

First of all, tell your boyfriend right now, it's stupid not to tell him. If your too scared to tell him, then sweetie, he is not the one for you. Your spouse is the one you should be able to tell anything to. I think it's great also that your mom is supportive, make sure you do what you want to do though ( ... )

metal_teardrops June 26 2007, 20:48:58 UTC

I agree with all the above posters - tell your boyfriend ASAP. It's important to get it out in the open, and knowing how he will deal with it all will help you to make a decision ( ... )

pantsonfireliar June 26 2007, 22:38:21 UTC

Don't even listen to bazo0ka! Do not even think about killing an innocent fetus that will soon become a human being. Abortion is bad and i'm sure you know this. That baby could become the President one day for all you know. Adoption and keeping your baby should be your only option.
And for telling your boyfriend, make sure your face to face and be completely honest. I had a bad experience with my exboyfriend and telling him I was pregnant, but I don't want to go there. Make sure to tell him this little one is the both of yours and it's no ones fault. God put that baby in your stomach for a reason, whether it be to make you stronger or because he knew you were the special one he picked and knew you would make the best decision. And please think of this as a suprise and not a mistake.

Best of luck

nineinchlover June 27 2007, 23:45:55 UTC

awww, i like you pantsonfireliar.

"Make sure to tell him this little one is the both of yours and it's no ones fault. God put that baby in your stomach for a reason, whether it be to make you stronger or because he knew you were the special one he picked and knew you would make the best decision. And please think of this as a suprise and not a mistake."

<3

pantsonfireliar June 29 2007, 22:22:02 UTC

oh & i was 16 yrs. old also when I got pregnant <33

bazo0ka June 26 2007, 23:19:04 UTC

Not that this was a debate, but I wasn't saying go get an abortion. If you read my post with an open mind, I was merely stating that she should read all the information she can, talk to people in all kinds of situations and find out whats best for her! WOW people, didn't you get that message?

I was just stating that there is so much rich information out there on all 3 routes and choices, that she doesn't have to make a decision RIGHT NOW, and she can look into all routes before deciding whats best FOR HER. This isn't about you, it's not about me, it's about HER and what's best for HER.

If you didn't like what I had to say, you should've come to ME.

ugh. nineinchlover June 27 2007, 23:44:43 UTC

"WOW people, didn't you get that message ( ... )