The big change.
I want to explain to you how much I love LOVE.
I think that love: can get you through anything, encourages you at your best and at your worst, fights for you when you stray away, works through disagreements, understands you in any phase of life you may be going through, respects you, believes and trusts you will do things that you say you will do ( Read more... )
I think that love: can get you through anything, encourages you at your best and at your worst, fights for you when you stray away, works through disagreements, understands you in any phase of life you may be going through, respects you, believes and trusts you will do things that you say you will do ( Read more... )
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The hardest part is shifting into my own person.
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from experience, sometimes you have to break it off for them to realize what they're missing. obviously by then it's too late, but a lot of times people get too comfortable in relationships and just assume the other person is just going to stick around regardless of whether they put in an ounce of effort.
i'm proud of you for not just remaining in a rut and doing something about it. there's no reason for you to be unhappy. you can't say you didn't try, considering you've been together for what, 4 or 5 years? tho, if i'm not mistaken, weren't you engaged??
anyway, good luck to you molly. i know we never really hung out or anything, but i think about you from time to time and always wish you well.
xx
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But I see how his parent's relationship/marriage is, and he is exactly like his dad. His dad comes home from work and goes into a small room where all of his "stuff" is and plays guitar all night until he goes to bed, completely ignoring the wife and even takes a few beers into the room with him.
Ramzi used to grab his acoustic, sit out on the porch smoking cigarettes and playing guitar for hours. Same thing!
I did not want that marriage, so I broke that off as well. Which he was actually happy about, which sucks. I don't know, he's just... extremely immature. He even mentioned on two separate occasions that he doesn't have to work too hard in life right now because when his parents die, he will get all of their money. CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT?! He laughed, but I kinda see the truth in that. Especially since he doesn't do anything right now.
I would love to hang out, what do you usually do?
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anywho, we should trade numbers!
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you've given him so many freaking chances.
get out.. you're better than this.
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Worst part, is that his best friend is Jacob, and Ramzi is easily influenced. Blegh, I don't know.
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ramzi sounds like my brother. he still lives with my parents at 34 (35 this july) and only wants to get drunk all the time and not be bothered. he doesn't do anything and it's sad.
where do you plan on moving? yonis and i are moving to ny in april because the design scene here in florida doesn't exist. plus clients are a royal pain and don't appreciate good things when they see them. if you ever decide to come to ny maybe we can work something out together... we are looking for cheap rent and cool people to room with that have the same ideals as us. (:
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Seriously, a shame... like, how are these guys gonna survive later in life? I don't wnat to put your bro down, but this is how I feel about Ramzi... and his brother. I just don't understand. That crappiest part is that the dad and mom are letting this happen. No.. "Hey, Ramzi, you're 27 you should move out now." The mom literally almost makes out with Ramzi when we would go and visit them in Cypress. She is terrible. Mentioning shit that has no relation to her son growing up and being an adult. UGHHHHhhh SOOO much backstory. I wish I chronicled everything that has happened along the way so that I would remember everything. hahaha
I would love to move somewhere like NY or Portland, I just want to make sure I land on something I WANT to do... not something I have to do because I need money. Keep me updated on that, though...... seriously!
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when youve been with someone almost a decade things do change especially when youre ready to grow up and be an adult and the other is not it def puts a strain on the relationship and of course you cant wait around forever.
kudos and i wish you the best of luck and happiness :)
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