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[anonymous]

hahhahahahahha vannny got so many crushes aye aye ayeeeeeeeeee. anyways, i havent seen you in a gazillion years. and you have my 2 bags. im sure you can guess who this is now my fellow fml-ian.if you still cannot guess, you should just dig your nose and eat your peesai. haaaaaaaaaaaaaa.

[anonymous]

I think I have a crush on someone my really good friend really likes, and I can't bring myself to tell my friend. Or anyone as a matter of fact. And neither of us really knows that person deep enough for that person to dig anyone of us. But despite not knowing this person well enough, or other than knowing this person's name and maybe a few casual and a very personal conversations we've had, I can't help myself but smile when I think of this person. And at the end of the day, I have to go to my really good friend and face my friend telling me about the person we both like. How's that for an honest-maybe-even-to-god confession?

who are you?

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anws, this is very subjective. i dont know if you'll see this, but whatever

it will definitely hurt your friend a little if you make it known. but it is only right. and if its your really gd friend, both of you may end up having a "fair competition". To save drama, which can cause drastic change in any friendship, you better let you friend know before he/she find out.
Not letting him/her know would be the last option, and finally i would not advise you to let the feeling go cause you might regret it (really!if you move of the triangle) as it really SUCKS to know if that person tt you both like, likes you instead.

ok, really would like to know who you are. cause i faced a similar situation. and just wondering why would you ask me this. i feel like kelly(dear kelly)

Re: who are you?

[anonymous]

Dear Kelly,

Well, when you were in my plight, did you let go of that feeling? What if letting go of that "feeling" might be the best thing you've ever done, i.e. save the friendship with the friend, and maybe even start a closer friendship with this person that my friend and I both like? Wait, is that even possible? Okay, I've prolly been watching too many chick flicks. But yes, do you believe in that ever happening? Both of us know that person casually only, but that person's known my friend longer than having known me. And my friend and I have known each other longer and better than we have known this person. So, even if it means playing safe and not taking the plunge, wouldn't it feel better knowing that you still have your really good friend there with you and not the person who barely knows you?

*K

P.S. In your case, did you know the person very well?

Re: who are you?

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there are too many what if(s) to think about. can you just reveal who are you as well as the parties to me? if not, just let me know if you are a m/f. your friend is a m/f. the person you both like is m/f. easier for me to type.

i cannot say it is guaranteed but what i learnt from my case is that, one can let go/have it and save the friendship, or make the friendship closer all the above possibilities at the same time. the key thing is to be true.

dont hide anything, say what you have to say, do what you have to do. be true to your friend, to her/him and yourself. handle it in a way that even if is one sided thing for you or your friend OR even both, THREE of you can still be friends. go let your friend know that you feel for that girl/guy.

for my case, yes i knew the person quite well. i regretted really badly. and till now, im still trying. hah. hard to explain.

PS im not dear kelly, my name is van. tyvm

[anonymous]

I saw you at butter factory the other day with gen and ciwei, hahaha.

[madeofballoons]

I don't know if you still rmbr me! This is Shinn here! I used to be from CCPS as well! I think I'm a year younger than you. Rachel Yang's friend... rings a bell, yes/no? : )