I READ IT ALL =]misz_chinitaJune 16 2004, 06:01:32 UTC
JEEZ ! THATS A LOT FOR U TO BEING GOING THRU AT THIS TIME ` HONESTLY CHARLIE NEEDS TO BECOME A BIT MORE RESPONSIBLE AND NOTICE THAT ITS NOT JUSZ U THAT IS HAVING THA BABY BUT BOTH OF YALL -- I WOULD OF EXPECTED HIMT O COME TO0 REGARDLESZ OF WHAT U SAID -- ABOUT THA EMOTION`Z I UNDERSTAND WHERE UR COMIN FROM CUSZ IVANY WAS LIKE THAT ` I TOLD HIM THAT I WANTED MORE AFFECTION AND ATTENTION AND HE`D BE LIKE OH OKAY BABY IMA CHANGE AND ALL THAT SHIT [ HE CHANGED IN A WAY ] - IM SORRY ALL THIS SHIT IS FRUSTRATING U NOW =/
Re: I READ IT ALL =]preshuzz_l0veJune 16 2004, 16:51:14 UTC
yeah ur rite in a sense but charlie doez love da baby and shit but i jus felt like he should of came regardless. well thats good that ivany changed! at least he listened to you ma! =]
Aww hunny don't be sad! He's just going through one of his bitchy moods, everyones got em' right...he'll get over it. Yes, regardless he shoulda went with you, but just think, if he would've, think about what might have happened, he just might have been rude, and mean the whole time...maybe you were just better off with your parents? I know how much you love Charlie, and I understand things aren't clicking anymore...maybe you just give it time, then if things dont wory out sooner...then..maybe you should do whatever YOU think is best darlin! Don't feel bad that the babies parents cant get along..because they will <33..you have another 1-2 months?..She's got the perfect mommy <33! Either way, shes(??) blessed to have you! Just don't think about the negative stuffs, just think about the good, and how happy your gonna be and how happy it's gonna be! Whether or not Charlie is there or not..which he most likely will be..you 2 are just going through a rough time right now...think positive! And for your dad saying something like that, don't
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thankz ma yeah i have anotha 1-2 months. i kno regardless my baby is gonna be happy weatha im wit charlie or not but i jus wish instead of all this drama we goin threw that we could put it all behind us and be SO IN LOVE like we use to be =\ thankz for the advice mama<3
First of all, I love you more than anything. If you ever need anyone or anything don't hesitate to ask. Things with you and Charlie will shape up when the due date comes closer. Just tell him how you feel. Like one on one, and tell him to just listen and than he'll be able to talk. Whenever I have a problem with someone thats what I do. I don't hesitate to tell them whats wrong. I think you just need to talk it out and everything. And I read that WHOLE thing! lol. Even though I need to figure out how I'm wearing my hair tonight for graduation! I care about you so much and I want you to be happy. Just tell Charlie that for the babys sake just be together. It'd be more complicated and more traumatic if the baby didn't have a good relationship with their father. Often girls love their dad more and vice versa
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i always try and express my feelings towards charlie. the thing is he says he understands but never makes an attempt to change the things that make me upset. thats what is most upsetting to me. even if me and charlie werent together i would never hold him back from my daughter (yes they think its a girl) she would have the perfect relationship with her father. i would never let my feelings interfere with his and her relationship. congrats on ur graduation! and thankz for readin the whole thing! =]
i understand what ure goin thru me + my man went thru dat in da beginning of my pregnancy but now our relationship is so much better we hardly ever fight and itz b/cuz he understandz dat i am pregnant + bein pregnant causes u tO have moodswingz + be bitchy but i try to calm myself down .. but on another note he shouldve came wit u regardless of u tellin him not to be there .. he needz to grow up b/c this aint about ya two anymore its about your child !! .. <333333
datz what i try and tell him all the time! maybe he is a lil immature bout certain things and i think i can be too at timez. i guess this is still a bit of a shock to both of us. im glad u and ur manz r doin good ma! stress isnt good while bein pregnant
i know that really hurt u when he didn`t go with you and ur right.. even if u did say for him to stay he shoulda went with you anyway. thats a very important thing for the both of you to go through together.
when i had my first doctors appointment and my man faked on me i was feelin hella bad. i felt like he just didn`t give a fuck and that his friends were more important to him than me + his baby were. i didn`t end up going cuz i didn`t wanna go alone and i didn`t have my parents to back me up.. because at the time my mom didn`t even know. my first real appointment was another let down because he got the "time mixed up" but u know it was time for me to man up. i knew my baby was importnant and i needed to be checked out so somehow i got there on my own. ur very fortunate to have ur parents backin you up like that but at the same time ur baby deserves both of her parents to back her up too
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thankz so much girl. yeah i read bout ur trip to the doctorz by urself. u must of felt the way i felt! i hope u and ur mans get better and thankz so much for the comment cuz u r 100% right. <33
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when i had my first doctors appointment and my man faked on me i was feelin hella bad. i felt like he just didn`t give a fuck and that his friends were more important to him than me + his baby were. i didn`t end up going cuz i didn`t wanna go alone and i didn`t have my parents to back me up.. because at the time my mom didn`t even know. my first real appointment was another let down because he got the "time mixed up" but u know it was time for me to man up. i knew my baby was importnant and i needed to be checked out so somehow i got there on my own. ur very fortunate to have ur parents backin you up like that but at the same time ur baby deserves both of her parents to back her up too ( ... )
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