Questions of the Day:

[prettipoetic]

1) How many of you REALLY clean out the dish drainer thingy that you put your dishes in to air dry?

2) How much of your past should a significant other know about? Does that amount of info change if you plan to marry? Do you worry that something in your past could come back to haunt you?

Comments

[loonylupinlover]

1) I don't have a real one but the thing I use (a rack out of my mini fridge + a dish towel to absorb the water) gets pretty freaking gross, not gonna lie. California molds things much more than Oregon did so I've had to toss a few towels... so much for cleanliness

[ranay]

If they are significant then it's the possibibility that you could marry that person, so be open from the beginning. True loves accepts that it's the past and you are not defined by your past but by your present. I think everything should be open only if it matters to the relationship. For example-Of course that you stole a bike when you were a kid would be irrelevant unless the question of stealing was asked. Some things you tell without having to be specifically asked, but other things are not that you are hiding them but if asked tell the truth.

I have cleaned it once since I have been in my house (2 years). I usually buy a new one if it gets too filthy.

[prettipoetic]

So what about sexual history or past relationships? How much do they need to know?