Comments | pretty_grrrlz: .Don't save my strength or daring.

nyla_tiger in pretty_grrrlz

.Don't save my strength or daring.

Jan 09, 2006 20:05

Comments 6

tino_bambino January 10 2006, 03:09:05 UTC

Hey, don't put it on yourself to cheer her up. If she has a mood disorder or she is just down about things, it is probably beyond your control. It sounds like you're doing a great job of being there for her, just don't make it your mission to heal her...because if you're unable to do that, it'll be awful for both of you. (trust me, I know.) Hope things start looking up soon. Winter sucks. But going for walks in snow filled forests with iced trees is really romantic, I think.

nyla_tiger January 10 2006, 03:23:35 UTC

Yes, I know it's not my job to heal her... I tried that with one before and she is now happily married to a male we both thought was gay. I have what my friends have named a Guardian angel complex.

crazierthanu15 January 10 2006, 11:45:00 UTC

is she taking pills? if its this seriouse she needs to be on medication. ITs nothing to be ashamed of, meds just balance out the chemicals in your brain nothing more nothing less. after one of your classes get her a dozen roses and in side one of the roses put a necklace or something. put a card saying "take a deeper look" she probably won't find them at first but when they wilt or if she looks through she'll find it. ITs a very nice suprise. and then you can always get an electric blanket blow up an air mattress if you have one, get hot chocolate. then go out and watch the stars. its so nice.
bye<3 you are a born writer.

nyla_tiger January 11 2006, 01:33:22 UTC

Her and I have the same stance on pills. We ahte them. Not to seem rude, but it seems slightly unfare to make her do something that I wouldn't. Thank you greatly for the ideas thought, some day I will put them to work.

crazierthanu15 January 11 2006, 02:24:02 UTC

sorry im on them and they help me. thought it might help but i completely respect that,

nyla_tiger January 11 2006, 11:14:43 UTC

I've seen them work on some and rip others appart, I'm happy they have the correct responce to your body. She used to take them, but they did not work for her (something I just found out resently.)