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[prettybynite]

if anyone could give me some insight into the workings of boy-brains when those boys refuse to talk to you, that would be really helpful

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[ironed_orchid]

Where are you?

[prettybynite]

brisbane still. 'til the ninth ish

[ironed_orchid]

Ah.

Boys usually refuse to talk when they are moody and pretentious upset.

Easier to get them to talk in general than to talk about what's bugging them, but once you do get them talking, it's sometimes possible to turn the conversation to topic of doom, and if all else fails, offer a blowjob

[jaigyn]

ironed_orchid...You know us too well....
*goes off to inform the brotherhood*

Cheer up Kelly! First off... no rock throwing... it doesn't end well.. don't believe me... it's in the bible! So it has to be true... secondly.. if it's the same "boy" that I'm thinking of... like I said before... you gotta give it time and not force the issue... boys are people too.. and just like Soylent Green we sometimes just need to be left alone in a dark chilled area surrounded by drinks... *nods*

[azure_kitty]

You poke them until they do talk to you! OR you rise above their childishness and tell them that you'll sort it out and talk to them once they've grown up. :D

[hypercognitive]

Or throw soft toys/foam/rocks at them.

"Talk to me!"
*throw*
"Talk to me!"
*throw*

And so on.

[prettybynite]

all useful suggestions, except that you seem to assume that the boy in question will speak at all. i've apparently offended him so terribly that he no longer acknowledges my existance *eye-roll*
boys are stupid. throw rocks at them

[prettybynite]

not living with the one i'm referring to, actually, monkey, but thanks all the same :P

[jaigyn]

I think I've spotted part of the problem... the words "apparently" and using things like *eye-roll*.

You don't seem to acknowledge the face that you DID offend him... and whether this is a true offense or imaginary... that doesn't shouldn't matter to you if you really do want him back as a friend.