Well we have different personnalities because I would already have told that M to fuck off. First of all I would not have helped him in the first place, a friend is here to help indeed, but a friend would not ask another one to cover his mess. It could only work if YOU decided to help him without him asking anything. Then you let him drive your car! !!! what on earth were you thinking ??? !!!! and you ask him to pay 50 % ???!!!!!!! COME ON ! Be tough, that guy is not your friend, a friend would never screw you up like this. Not only should he apologize over and over again but he should pay 100% and possibly do something to make it up to you. Blah, honestly, this "friend" sucks if you want my opinion.
Im now seeing this is a different perspective,, and your right.. i should be tough !! I will do something about it & fill you guys in ,, thank you Sal, i really appreciate it =)
Hey Sae!! But of course you have LJ friends, here I am! :D About your problem... F-U-C-K. I mean, that M guy is just NOT worth it, you know?? What he's done to you is not what a friend would do, he is just not your friend and you shouldn't treat him like one! That guy is unbelievably selfish, a fucking coward and he doesn't deserve a person like you in his life. I'm with Salomé here, I would tell him to fuck the hell off, don't even give him the chance to apologize. And "S" should be ashamed of himself too by the way.
It's great to have you here Sae, hope we'll hear from you often ;) Cheer up mate, at least you have "B" who seems very nice!
Your absolutely right,, you and Salome made a big point... and now i think i can do something about what happened.. Thank you. Im glad to be here, and have your guys' support.. im so grateful .. =)
Oh and by the way if you want help to make a layout for your LJ I recommend you visit howto, it's a community with lots of tutorials on how to customize your LJ :)
If I were in your situation I'd most likely cover his ass. I am soft that way as well when it comes to friendship. Friendship is something to be valued but not something to take advantage of. I pity that your friend "M" doesn't understand that. He might not be doing it purposely but at least he should be mature enough to know his wrong and should cover up the full expense of the damage. I'd say do not give him a choice. Let him pay for the actual damage in full and let him know in no certain terms that what he did to you is worst what you're making him do because that accidents will be going into your records permanently.
P.S. I hope everything is doing fine with the site. Let me know if you can't upload or anything okay? :)
I know what your saying, he SHOULD act mature and be a man.. he should pay the expenses, but he didn't... i dont care, i dont need his money nor his friendship =) I got the 2 accidents on my record permenately, i guess they are reminders of my mistakes and stupidity ! thank you for the support =) i very much appreciate it !
P.S: everything looks fine now,, i'll try to update the site asap =) take care dear
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Blah, honestly, this "friend" sucks if you want my opinion.
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:) No probs, glad to help ;)
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About your problem... F-U-C-K. I mean, that M guy is just NOT worth it, you know?? What he's done to you is not what a friend would do, he is just not your friend and you shouldn't treat him like one!
That guy is unbelievably selfish, a fucking coward and he doesn't deserve a person like you in his life. I'm with Salomé here, I would tell him to fuck the hell off, don't even give him the chance to apologize. And "S" should be ashamed of himself too by the way.
It's great to have you here Sae, hope we'll hear from you often ;)
Cheer up mate, at least you have "B" who seems very nice!
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Im glad to be here, and have your guys' support.. im so grateful .. =)
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P.S. I hope everything is doing fine with the site. Let me know if you can't upload or anything okay? :)
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P.S: everything looks fine now,, i'll try to update the site asap =) take care dear
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