Comments | princess_boring: sighhh.

princess_boring

sighhh.

May 01, 2005 01:34

seeing how happy some of my friends are in their relationships make me miss being in one. Btw i'm really happy for miss stella quek, i'm so glad she found someone whom she's loving more each day. i can totally identify with her feelings when i first got attached 4 years back. the first few months were pure bliss, or as they call it, the honeymoon ( Read more... )

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buzz_cut April 30 2005, 17:43:48 UTC

Babe, I totally understand what you mean between being committed and being possessive ... it's a fine line sometimes. I went through pretty much the same thing with a couple of my previous gfs. Thing is, I think one should still have a life outside the relationship as an individual. The challenge is finding the right balance between spending quality time (not just time) and doing your own things.

On the other hand, some folks aren't prepared to give up any part of their pre-relationship lifestyle and expect their partner to understand. But that's like wanting your cake and eating it methinks coz everyone has finite energy and time on their hands, and if someone truly important enters one's life, surely some other things have gotta make way. Again, it's about balance and, more important, revisiting one's priorities in life. Sounds easy, but it's much harder to do in real life huh?

jandir April 30 2005, 17:48:30 UTC

you. blog.

the balance is hard to find la. But one cannot get the best of both worlds. Its always about adapting to someone new. Painful.

princess_boring May 1 2005, 12:19:09 UTC

yah man.. i totally agree!

and for the possessive part, i mean its normal to feel jealous or wary when let's say ur gf starts being close to some other guys, but i seriously think u shud trust ur gf to noe wat shes doing. they like to say things like "its not u i dun trust, it's the other guys" wtf!! that doesn't make much sense lor! trusting ur gf is enough what why u bother abt other guys?? sheeesh man.

buzz_cut May 1 2005, 15:11:43 UTC

Erm, I guess bfs might get paranoid coz they know what some guys can be like ... yeah, wolves in sheep clothing. So even if they trust their gf, it doesn't mean the other guy might not attempt to make a move ... or worse, do something really bad ( ... )

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slumbermydarlin April 30 2005, 20:04:45 UTC

when i finally get into one right!!! i shall decide if its really so tough. hahah.. but i'm a bit sado masochist one. i don't mind!

princess_boring May 1 2005, 12:26:12 UTC

wahahahaa then u shud be attracted to those MCP kinda guy!

anonymous May 1 2005, 09:53:16 UTC

i'm glad dat u've finally matured and know life's not a bed of roses. dun give up on relationships yet, be glad that it once gave you a happy time and unforgettable memories. be the bubbly, spontaneous and cheerful girl u used to be!!!

princess_boring May 1 2005, 12:23:27 UTC

awww thanks! =)

who's this btw?

anonymous May 3 2005, 03:31:39 UTC

u GUESS????? haha.... one of your fren who doesnt blog.... =P