HI! Yeah, I decided to bring the lj back. There's a limited number of entertaining things in Erie. So I needed something to do late late at night. How've you been? Sounds like you're having an awesome time there!
You should forgive him to let it go from you, it's liberating to not have to hold grudges. But that doesnt mean you forget or remove any of the walls against him taht you've put up.
what he did is irreperable, and yes, his apology sounds like a scam to me. but that doesnt really matter cos the forgiveness is for you, not for him. what he's done will either haunt him or it won't, either way it's his problem now, his shitty self. so letting it go for you doesnt help him, it lets you be able to say "bill, i forgive you, its over now" and close that chapter forever. then he is no longer in your life, no longer part of your consciousness. he's gone, and if your mind crosses over him you can think "yeah, but i forgave him, and it's okay now"
that's what i think you should do anymore, i think you deserve that closure and freedom from that experience.
you dont have to block him out or force yourself to forget, you should just stop thinking about him, let him slip away. it's not important anymore, that chapter of your life is over and a newer happier one is in progress.
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I wish i could help you with the bill thing....
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Yeah, I decided to bring the lj back. There's a limited number of entertaining things in Erie. So I needed something to do late late at night. How've you been? Sounds like you're having an awesome time there!
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but i do have a good time with cute boys i don't know at parties.......!:-P
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what he did is irreperable, and yes, his apology sounds like a scam to me. but that doesnt really matter cos the forgiveness is for you, not for him. what he's done will either haunt him or it won't, either way it's his problem now, his shitty self. so letting it go for you doesnt help him, it lets you be able to say "bill, i forgive you, its over now" and close that chapter forever. then he is no longer in your life, no longer part of your consciousness. he's gone, and if your mind crosses over him you can think "yeah, but i forgave him, and it's okay now"
that's what i think you should do anymore, i think you deserve that closure and freedom from that experience.
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