Comments | princesspetunia: Holy shit.

princesspetunia

Holy shit.

Mar 28, 2005 18:53

My boyfriend just asked me if I wanted us to live together. Completely out of the blue. I have no idea how I feel about this. Someone please tell me how I feel about this, because I will need to have it figured out somewhat by the time he gets here tonight.

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trestleboy March 28 2005, 17:45:47 UTC

my first thought is that if you don't know, its probably best to give it a little time. explaining that you don't know one way or the other tells you that you're open, but still want to be honest with him.

then make out to Pat Benetar.

mawychick March 28 2005, 19:09:01 UTC

good-ness. It seems very soon to me...but I move differently than others, you know?

princesspetunia March 29 2005, 18:44:32 UTC

Yeah, I know. It was more of a "let's keep this in mind for some time a few months down the road" than a "let's do this rightthisverysecond" thing. I think that if we haven't gotten bored or annoyed with each other by the time summer's up, it will probably happen, and then it will be A Good Thing.

But eep, living with a boy? (Mikey doesn't count. He's a bigger girl than I am.)

mawychick March 29 2005, 18:52:51 UTC

I hear you.

Do you hate me? dstock March 29 2005, 18:34:00 UTC

Hi this is Dann. I like your music choice. I think of you often when I listen to my baby daddy mix, and wear my fuck hat.

Re: Do you hate me? princesspetunia March 29 2005, 18:40:23 UTC

OMG, you're still alive! And you have a LiveJournal now? You should, like, put stuff in it.

As a matter of fact, I do not hate you. I actually miss you terribly. I am not online much anymore, due to work and the aforementioned boyfriend. You are still more special than him, because he does not have a fuck hat.

So how are you?

Well, damn... xtremetidal March 30 2005, 04:33:55 UTC

It does seem a little soon to me too. I am currently living with my fiance, but circumstances are entirely different. We'd been together for five years before we made that decision, and engaged for over a year to boot. I'll tell you that I've never been happier, but we two are very comfortable with each other. In addition, I never would have agreed to do it if I wasn't absolutely sure we would be married within the next year/year and a half. And yes, living with the opposite sex, no matter which one it is, can be a real eye-opener, for good or ill.

I guess the only advice I can give is to give it time, and then go with your gut ('cause the heart is rash).