Some thoughts

[pringle]

- I wonder what I'm doing, and what I should do next. And how many years out that might be

Comments

[yiskah]

Dude, what, you're getting married? When and how did I miss this? Congrats!

Also, will you still be in Dubai in August? I may be passing through for a couple of days...

[pringle]

Um... well, I will be, but that's as far as planning has gone really. Hence the eloping comment! It's all so confusing. But thank you :)

I fully expect to still be living in Dubai in August, but I don't know about physically being here. August really isn't a good time to be here...

[misspotsitt]

I'm not entirely sure if I really identify with childfree. I'm not quite as rabid as some people, but yeah, I just don't want kids.

Next time you're over we WILL meet up and you can hypnotise me, though I think maybe I just need some relaxation rather than trying to stop me fancying people I shouldn't. That is I think getting better on its own.

[pringle]

*nods* I find movements like that, well, a bit strange. I do fully identify with this though ;)

*nods* it'll be good to meet you, never mind hypnotise you! Catch me on yahoo sometime and we can make plans. I'm glad time cures all, though :)

[misspotsitt]

Oh god yeah do I ever identify with that! I must send that to my Boss. He doesn't like kids either.

Time does well, if not cure, at least alleviate all. It's not gone away but I can live with what's there and soon enough there won't be anything there I suspect.

[pringle]

*grin* I like Wellington Grey.

Time is good like that. I'm glad you're getting on with things, and can see to a time beyond.

Well, relaxation we can stick with, or do other things as our interest takes us. I can do the relaxation stuff online in some circumstances, even.

[oblivious]

Can we have some kind of public service announcement as to the current status of your good self? I am out of the loop :)

[pringle]

When I know, aye :) Well, I'm living in sin...

[casca]

Do you know why you don't want kids? I mean, have you tried to psychoanalyse it? I just wondered :)

Fran and I will remain staunch NOs on sooo many fronts ;)

There's nothing wrong with eloping as long as you're sure it won't offend anyone you love.

[pringle]

Yes, they're screaming shit-and-vomit-producing monsters who grow up into teenagers. :)

Also, selfish as it may be, the things I still want to achieve don't mesh well with having kids.

The problem with NOT eloping is it's also somewhat likely to piss off someone we love. So by eloping, we hopefully minimise the sum of the extents of pissed off-ness. If that makes sense.

[notagain]

How does eloping fit in with planning 3 weddings? Actually perhaps that answers itself :) Whose weddings? I took one look at a wedding magazine and decided eloping was clearly the way forward, faffing around with getting the napkin rings right nearly scared me off... It's totally worth it though, I want to do it all over again but APPARENTLY it's too soon to re-new our vows :)

Also, is describing yourself as a 'rusty' hypnotist likely to encourage people to let you fiddle around with their subconscious? :)

[pringle]

The three aren't mine :) In case that wasn't clear.

Mind you, throw in families half a world apart, and weddings get horribly complicated :( Maybe there WOULD be three. Not in those countries though :)

Well, I'm rusty but experienced ;) *grin* I guess there's nobody reading this who hasn't either been hypnotised, or discussed hypnosis with me, in any case.