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Jun 28, 2005 16:58

i need to learn the art of asking questions. too often i simply accept what people tell me and I don't get the information i need or i give the impression that i'm not interested in further information.

"Where does the dance begin, where does it end?"

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stop_the_car June 28 2005, 22:23:17 UTC
what does all of this mean???
hehe

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pinksparklz June 29 2005, 05:28:51 UTC
I hate it when I feel I have been totally self absorbed an entire social evening. I know its not because I really am that egotistical, but usually because I am feeling socially awkward or a little overwhelmed or shy. I never feel like I ask enough questions or have good questions for people. Although if you get me one on one I'll school you the third degree.

Not sure if this was the angle you're going at, but,
"the comment" was made to add your own two cents I suppose.........;~)

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prosy June 29 2005, 13:50:04 UTC
you know the question "do you listen or wait to talk?" well, i am definitely a listener, so much so, that when it's my turn to talk I have nothing to say. a day or a week later, a thought or a question will occur to me but the moment has long since passed.

sometimes i think it's a wonder i have any social skills at all.... ha.

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prosy June 29 2005, 16:02:54 UTC
if everyone were like me, conversation would be difficult. i'm working on being more balanced.

someone once told me that they always take note of what i say something because i don't say a lot. that makes me feel good, but it also makes me feel pressured to make what i do say noteworthy.

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life is full of unanswered questions roastemtoasty June 29 2005, 16:46:21 UTC
and often it's those questions that leave you in a quandry wondering why they never seem to get answered... such is life... ironic

have i mentioned how much i miss you? Dusty and I were talkin the other day about how much we miss you... COME BACK!!!

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