In Case Anyone Was Curious...

[protoman20xx]

...me & Candice broke up. Most of my friends already knew, but for those I don't get to see as much, that's what's been going on. I go day-by-day, sometimes really depressed and alone, and others, I'm fine. I suppose that's natural. We parted as friends, as opposed to Andrea, who cheated on me. So at least, it wasn't a bad breakup.

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oh my!

[princess_chacha]

what happened? i am so sorry!

Re: oh my!

[protoman20xx]

Well, we hadn't been getting along perfectly for a number of months. I mean, it wasn't bad, but we argued a lot about things like a lack of affection on her part and her fear of long-term commitment. I treated her as best as I knew how and she really cared about me, but she didn't want to have it eventually go further (like marriage) with us continuously arguing because she did not want to hurt me worse further down the line. I understand where she's coming from and I can't argue with our differences, but I didn't want to break up. I'm dealing with it ok, but on days when I'm off and my friends are working or at school, it gets particularly lonely because I'm so used to spending my days off with her. But I'll live...

Re: oh my!

[princess_chacha]

it will be OK. You'll be weepy for a while then you will wake up one morning feeling great. i hope breaking up was not a quick fix, but life is too short to be unhappy. you will be Ok. eat a pint of ice cream or cookie dough. Better yet mix them. you will feel wonderful then or have belly ache which would get your mind off the break up. : ) i am here if you need me.