Why do I get this icky feeling...

[prtyldy]

...whenever I present myself in any way that makes me feel desirable

Comments

[anima_engine]

My solution used to be simple: Denigrate anything sexy as frivolous and narcissistic. Secretly, I was jealous. Of women. Of their beauty and power. And how distanced I was from it.

Now? I'm playing around with my image and having a lot of fun. It is highly affirming to look the same way you feel. No translation necessary. So forget about *being* sexy and play around with what makes you feel sexy. Just make it fun on your own terms and the details will fall into place. :)

you know, I feel the same way...

[outofsynch]

I do things that make me feel good, or that I think are fun. or things that I can consider "showing off". and when people notice, and comment, and give positive feedback on what I've done, or wear, I just want to crawl into a corner and hide

Re: you know, I feel the same way...

[prtyldy]

=) yeah, I guess the problem for me is that I have stayed away from "sexy" in ANY form up until recently...