Comments | ps_iilov3you: Mmm kay.

ps_iilov3you

Mmm kay.

Feb 05, 2006 22:09

This update probably won't be that long but I figure it's time for an update. This weekend was good. I got to spend it with my baby and I wouldn't have it any other way. Honestly, no other way. Well we watched the SuperBowl together with the family and it was just fun being with him. my family is absolutely crazy haha. Alright, so school's been gay ( Read more... )

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t00c00lf0ry0u February 6 2006, 03:45:37 UTC

I really think you should have talked to me rather than just assuming I talked shit about your relationship. You just assume that I was saying shit rather than asking me. And then, what makes it even worse is that you act all pissy towards me and wont even tell me what's wrong. It's ridiculous that I get shit for something everyone who knows you has said. That's a bunch of bullshit. How can you expect me not to say he isnt fair to you when he upsets you? When I see one of my best friends upset over something her boyfriend did i'm going to think he's not right. I mean.. what the hell, am I supposed to think it's okay when he's mean to you. And I know you can go on and say it's none of my business but to see my friend hurt is. It's bullshit that I get crap for caring about one of my friends. If I ever said mike didnt treat you right in my life, it was only because you two were fighting. I know he makes you happy, and for that reason i'm happy you're with him. It's bullshit that the one person who told Mike I was talking shit hardly ( ... )

t00c00lf0ry0u February 6 2006, 03:48:41 UTC

And another thing
I've never talked shit about you and mike behind your back.
When you fight, it's pretty clear he's being a jerk to you.
And you say over and over its not my business.
But to see you hurt bugs me katie.
It's me fucking caring about you as a friend.

ps_iilov3you February 6 2006, 11:36:14 UTC

Don't tell me you weren't talking shit about me behind my back because if someone has to go and tell Mike what your saying and we had no idea you said that, then clearly that's talking shit behind our backs. And first off were weren't evewn fighting so I don't know what the hell you were talking about. We got into one argument at lunch but it was over right away and it had absolutely nothing to do with anyone around us or anything that happened right then. It was something about the night before therefore you can't say shit because you don't know if I was treating him like shit too. I don't understand why you say that it's your duty as my friend to care but it you cared so much you wouldn't assume things and just put everything on Mike. I know you Richard get into fights and I know he makes you upset but I don't sit there and blame everything on Richard, I care but I let you handle it because it's your relationship. I think I'm a big girl and can handle a LITTLE fight with my own boyfriend. I've been with him for almost three years, I ( ... )

t00c00lf0ry0u February 6 2006, 20:05:05 UTC

I WASNT TALKING SHIT BEHIND YOUR BACK. Kriten sat there with me the entire time, so unless she's lieing too, then ask her. Even when I asked Jack, he told me that when Mike asked him they werent talking about friday, they were talking about htings that had happened before. I know Richard and I arent perfect and I dont compare the shit mike does to richard. They're two completely different people and I know that. We fight like all the time too ( ... )

anonymous February 6 2006, 04:14:13 UTC

I bet Mike will really feel good if he reads your comment about how nobody likes him. wow what a thing to say mallory. shame on you.
Did you guys ever give him a chance and even try to hang out with him with the so called "group". the answer is probably no, my point exactly

t00c00lf0ry0u February 6 2006, 11:36:08 UTC

I never said no one likes him. All I said is that everyone has said shit about him not treating katie right when they fight. I dont have a problem with mike, katie and him should both know that. Please dont put words in my mouth. All I said about him was that its a bunch of bullshit that I'm getting bitched at and katies mad at me for something everyone has said. When they argue, he doesnt treat her right and thats all I, and anyone else has said. The only person who I said didnt like Mike was the person who told I was supposedly talking shit. This whole situation is ridiculous. Everyone has given him a chance... WE ALL asked him and Katie to go to homecoming with us, no one ha sa problem with him. It's just bullshit that I get blamed for fist off, something I didnt even do since like.. 3 months ago. And second off, the thing I said was both honest and something that all of katies other friends have said. BUt yet i'm going to get shit for it and it's going to be necessary for Mike to call me a bitch and a whore in 3rd hour all day ( ... )

tootsiebaybii February 6 2006, 19:33:04 UTC

I Love it when stupid little fights like this happen. And before NE ONE has something to say about me saying sumthin can go to hell, cuz its my fucking brother and im going to stick up for him and say w/e i wanna say. It's clear that no one treats their other half right when they are fighting that is why it's called fighting. Yea ppl might have their different ways of handling their anger and others have other different ways. And Mal, I don't see why you waste your time.. it's cool your caring for Katie, and you've told her more than once or w/e about Mike is a jerk when they are fihgting.. but Katie loves Mike, Mike loves Katie.. its relevant for them NOT to be nice to eachother when they are fighting. I mean whos nice when they are arguing wit sumone cuz i kno im sure in the hell not.. And my brother is exactley like me, and Katie I'm sorry cuz he can be an asshole.. i mean seriously.. everyone that knows Mike knows he can be an asshole it's a given.. but I mean seriously get over it. Katie's gonna be sad and upset when her & Mike ( ... )

t00c00lf0ry0u February 6 2006, 19:55:02 UTC

That's exactly what I'm saying. The only reason I was ever pissed off in the first place is because i felt like I was getting blamed for something everyone has said. I dont have a problem with Mike because I know katies happy with him. The only reason I pointed out me saying he was an ass to her is because that was me saying that's the only time i've said bad shit about him.I'm a lot closer to katie than I am to mike so of course I'm going to take her side over his. When they argue, and he hurts her i'm going to worry more about her feelings than his because she's one of my best friends. I know it takes two to argue and that it'll only make them stronger in the long run, but for that moment it doesnt. I'm not saying he's an ass because they fight, i'm saying that the times i've said shit about him was when they were fighting and thats why, and that it's bullshit that I'm getting blamed for something everyone has said.

ps_iilov3you February 6 2006, 20:52:35 UTC

I'm glad your there for me when I'm hurt, but I don't even understand how this was brought up in the first place. Something must have happened to make you even start saying stuff about Mike treating me like shit, I don't think Jack would bring it up for no reason. Mike said that Jack told him they were talking about that day. That's why I'm so confused. And about the comparing Mike and Richard thing, I didn't say that they're the same. All I was saying is that it seems you just want to make yourself and Richard look better than everyone, now I just said it SEEMED like it. Another thing, every couple is different and handles they're relationships, arguments, etc. different. I don't know if you were talking about me being naive in your journal but I'm pretty sure you were but why do I need to open my eyes and how am I naive? I'm just wondering. I don't even care about this anymore. Me and Mike are happy where we are and we don't need anyone to tell us differently. I honestly don't get involved when you and Richard fight, and I may think ( ... )

ps_iilov3you February 6 2006, 20:59:01 UTC

One more thing, you always told me that if I ever needed to talk that you'd be there because you would probably have some things you would like to talk about too and we can relate on some things. Well I'm just saying that I'm glad you care about me and how I feel, I really am. But instead of having a mother-like figure as my friend I would rather have someone who would be a shoulder to cry/lean on who I can talk to instead of someone who would criticize things in my life. I would much rather talk about our problems instead of argue about them like we are right now. What I'm saying is I would rather take the advice you gave me up there and use it instead of the fighting technique. Talking always works best.

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