this modern thought can get the best of you...
well i thought id write some. and this time im going to talk about allyn. so either that will make you sigh in exasperation, or it will make you giddy in anticipation. or neither and you'll just be like 'shut the fuck up patrick, jesus god'......so yea. ill tell the whole story. if its even a story. oh well. be updated
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b)beyond that..I say see how the vibes are when you get back to NY, but ultimately-ally is not a mean person, she is one of the nicest people I know(ok unless you are Joanie then she has no mercy) so if you do make a move and she doesnt want that she wont be mean about it.
c)Being a girl who is also 'guarded' about boys...sometimes we dont know what we want and something we think we dont want is actualy something we really want but we dont know it until we know it wants us too...make sense?
d)I hope you two fall in love because then she wont take my place as your best friend...=-(
love bear
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you've said repeatedly: u dont want another girl who wants to be your best friend.
well here u are in a situation in which you like a girl romantically, and the only way u will find out if she likes you romantically in return is to make a move (does not need to be a LITERAL move, especially if she's wary of guys - "let ur own descretion be your tutor" ahahah that's from hamlet, and in my poetry project, stupid freakin thing)
the only reason i can think of as to why you'd be nervous about making a move is because you dont want it to mess up your friendship...but u dont *really* want a friendship in the long run, so this should not really matter
the logical solution is that you should just make a move!
but i think this move shouldnt be made until you've spent real time with her in person...caz i think you will know more once u have.
ok im done. good luck :)
~*D
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