Comments | pschtyckque: Okay, I'm stumped.

pschtyckque

Okay, I'm stumped.

Jan 12, 2005 20:19

So this girl I've been seeing ( Read more... )

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pschtyckque January 12 2005, 20:36:21 UTC

That's what I'm hoping. She does seem rather shy. But we're both just getting out of relationships. So maybe she's hesitating.

Plus, I'm only going to be in town for a few more months, and she knows this.

Oh, so confusing.

blueduck37 January 12 2005, 20:48:50 UTC

Well she definitely wants to see you, otherwise she would ignore your calls. So, at least on some level, she's interested, but she's probably hesistant to get serious. That may explain the kiss thing. Getting physical (not that a kiss is all that much, but yea) usually tends to indicate things are serious, so she's probably nervous and/or shy. Not sure what to do about that, except maybe approach the subject directly and see what she is feeling.

That's just an intelligent guess. I suck at dating too.

pschtyckque January 12 2005, 20:52:08 UTC

That's my thought. I need to call her, and lay it all out. We haven't talked about "us" yet, and I think it's about time.

lionelhutz09 January 13 2005, 08:33:27 UTC

Hmm. She may be hesitating because you'll be leaving. If I were in her situation, especially right after leaving a serious relationship, I wouldn't want to get involved with someone right away. Especially if that someone was planning on leaving town!

Also, when I'm truly interested in someone, I call. Not constantly, but I call. I'm a bit confused, though. Do you work with this girl or was that the previous girl? If she works with you, she sees you every day. If not, she may be holding you off by not calling or kissing you goodnight.

Or maybe it's something more simple. Maybe you should bathe more than once a month. ;)

pschtyckque January 13 2005, 17:29:01 UTC

I've thought about the fact that I'm leaving soon. She is as well. Going back to college. I'm sure that's got something to do with it.

This isn't the girl from work. We ended that (wisely) a while back. Now we chat as if nothing happened. I'm cool with that. The new girl is actually someone I've known for some time, and sadly, she used to work with my xw.

Bathe more than once a month. Gotcha. I'll try anything once.