Well, some problems in relationships can ruin them. And it is always better to deal with those problems. Remember that time when I e-mailed you that crazy rant with all the caps-locking? Yeah, that would have been major bad news. And clearly this has worked for you, if you've maintained friendships for so very long. But too forgiving? *shakes head. Too forgiving is...hard to pin down. I feel like to a certain extent, you have to define that for yourself. It's your life, after all. You're the one who decides what's too much, what's over the line. I suppose the problem is, some people have such skewed views of the world they can't tell. But I don't think you're one of those people. I remember my sister used to tell me I was too nice. Maybe I was, then. I did have a very skewed worldview. But I am a nice person. I am nice, and generous, and forgiving. And that's my choice. Nobody else gets to tell me I'm too anything. Or you
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Well, some problems in relationships can ruin them. And it is always better to deal with those problems. Remember that time when I e-mailed you that crazy rant with all the caps-locking? Yeah, that would have been major bad news. And clearly this has worked for you, if you've maintained friendships for so very long. But too forgiving? *shakes head. Too forgiving is...hard to pin down. I feel like to a certain extent, you have to define that for yourself. It's your life, after all. You're the one who decides what's too much, what's over the line. I suppose the problem is, some people have such skewed views of the world they can't tell. But I don't think you're one of those people. I remember my sister used to tell me I was too nice. Maybe I was, then. I did have a very skewed worldview. But I am a nice person. I am nice, and generous, and forgiving. And that's my choice. Nobody else gets to tell me I'm too anything. Or you ( ... )
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