When I was pregnant with my youngest my ex and I had the BEST sex in the whole world. I had orgasms that would go on forever and even one that I could claim was a "gusher". It was so intense that we thought my water had broken. Talk about embarrassing at the hospital!
I too am one of the lucky ones. But I have to say that my most intense are probably when there is penetration. Odd huh? Because of that, John seems to think that I don't need as much external enjoyment. EXCUSE ME!!! Get your head down there and lickalotapuss!!!!
Okay, sorry...that was TMI! But you really got me thinking about it on this post. LOL
Pregnancy, job stress, sex stress, no communication stress, feeling icky stress, kid/house stress...
I feel for you sweetie. I know exactly how you feel and I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I don't. I hope you guys reach some communication about everything and work through it. I am sure this is not a permanent situation and just a temporary frustration.
Good luck, dear. Oh.. and you need to try out the rabbit. Bullets are sooooo 2005. ;)
Re: Awww....psychomom1974February 20 2006, 18:56:03 UTC
You know that I love you, right?
I do have a rabbit, but haven't been using it as much lately. The bullet seems to get the job done in the least amount of time ;)
I know that this is just a small bump in the road, it's just one that I'm not liking right now. Once things calm down a bit (haha), I know that things will get better. It just seems that when things in bed are out of sync, so is everything else - like that connection is missing.
Re: Awww....hollyswoodFebruary 21 2006, 11:36:09 UTC
Yes! No bed=No Connection. I understand that too well!
Maybe when the kids are gone for the weekend you guys can just have some time together. I am sure this bumb will pass... they always seem to. Maybe the Playstation could accidentally go missing for a night? Stranger things have been known to happen. :}
Bullet.....least amount of time..... LOL Thats cute!
Re: Awww....psychomom1974February 23 2006, 14:52:07 UTC
Since we haven't been doing any swinging related activities, we haven't gotten out as mucha dn are doing more of our own thing. Not that we played a whole lot when we did go, but I think we both miss being around people LOL. I might have to drag him out to the club this weekend to get him going!
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J was the first guy to give me a vaginal orgasm. I was beginning to think I just couldn't.
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*goes off in search of sex dictionary to get a full definition of vaginal orgasm before I make myself look completely stupid*
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PHEW!!! *wipes forehead*
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do I need to make plans to visit to help us both out?
I mean, because I can--for the good of the COLLECTIVE, I mean. LOL Just let me know! ;o)
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*kicks pile of dead batteries beside bed*
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I too am one of the lucky ones. But I have to say that my most intense are probably when there is penetration. Odd huh? Because of that, John seems to think that I don't need as much external enjoyment. EXCUSE ME!!! Get your head down there and lickalotapuss!!!!
Okay, sorry...that was TMI! But you really got me thinking about it on this post. LOL
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I feel for you sweetie. I know exactly how you feel and I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I don't. I hope you guys reach some communication about everything and work through it. I am sure this is not a permanent situation and just a temporary frustration.
Good luck, dear. Oh.. and you need to try out the rabbit. Bullets are sooooo 2005. ;)
(Hopefully that made you smile)
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I do have a rabbit, but haven't been using it as much lately. The bullet seems to get the job done in the least amount of time ;)
I know that this is just a small bump in the road, it's just one that I'm not liking right now. Once things calm down a bit (haha), I know that things will get better. It just seems that when things in bed are out of sync, so is everything else - like that connection is missing.
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Maybe when the kids are gone for the weekend you guys can just have some time together. I am sure this bumb will pass... they always seem to. Maybe the Playstation could accidentally go missing for a night? Stranger things have been known to happen. :}
Bullet.....least amount of time..... LOL Thats cute!
Love ya too, babe!
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