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Ok.... I'm putting this behind a cut because it is kind of long and some people may just not want to read it.... which is fine I guess.
Hi.. ok I need some advice and just to warn you I'm kind of in a ranting mood. I'm getting very tired of staying at Robert's mom's house. His step-sister Nicole is a total slob and I can't stand it! I make sure that the house is all clean and tidy everyday and she comes over and messes it up after school. I generally have the dishes all done and she always dirties a ton of them. I know I really have no right to tell her to use just one glass in the whole hour and a half that she is there but instead she uses at least three on a daily basis... no joke! So this week she is staying there because her dad is home for two weeks (well she is here this week for like two days and next week the ENTIRE week. She has a right to see her dad don't get me wrong but I feel like her maid! They don't make her take care of anything! Or let alone do anything. So last night Robert and I decided that we would stay the night at his dad's so we didn't have to fight over showers. We went back to his mom's after class today because we decided it would be best to just stay there (@ his dad's house) this week and probably next week too. Well I walked in and the house was a MESS!!! Their house is ALWAYS spotless! I was so frustrated because Nicole had gotten into my duffle bag and used my make-up and my hair straightener. Which I guess I don't mind too much, but (I REALLY DO MIND!!!) I wouldn't just do something like that without someone's permission. So I loaded up all of my stuff and took it down to his dad's. I decided that I wasn't going to do the dishes or clean up the kitchen and livingroom because maybe then Shari and Chris would see how much of a mess the girl really makes. I'm not sure what to do because they aren't my family and they are letting me stay there, but I don't feel like I should have to be the maid. I'm honestly just waiting for Robert's mom to say wow I really missed having you here to do the dishes and clean the house... (because we don't plan on being back there for like two weeks). I'm not sure how to handle this or what to think about this... So any suggestions would be really helpful. Sorry that this is so long and boring....
Hi.. ok I need some advice and just to warn you I'm kind of in a ranting mood. I'm getting very tired of staying at Robert's mom's house. His step-sister Nicole is a total slob and I can't stand it! I make sure that the house is all clean and tidy everyday and she comes over and messes it up after school. I generally have the dishes all done and she always dirties a ton of them. I know I really have no right to tell her to use just one glass in the whole hour and a half that she is there but instead she uses at least three on a daily basis... no joke! So this week she is staying there because her dad is home for two weeks (well she is here this week for like two days and next week the ENTIRE week. She has a right to see her dad don't get me wrong but I feel like her maid! They don't make her take care of anything! Or let alone do anything. So last night Robert and I decided that we would stay the night at his dad's so we didn't have to fight over showers. We went back to his mom's after class today because we decided it would be best to just stay there (@ his dad's house) this week and probably next week too. Well I walked in and the house was a MESS!!! Their house is ALWAYS spotless! I was so frustrated because Nicole had gotten into my duffle bag and used my make-up and my hair straightener. Which I guess I don't mind too much, but (I REALLY DO MIND!!!) I wouldn't just do something like that without someone's permission. So I loaded up all of my stuff and took it down to his dad's. I decided that I wasn't going to do the dishes or clean up the kitchen and livingroom because maybe then Shari and Chris would see how much of a mess the girl really makes. I'm not sure what to do because they aren't my family and they are letting me stay there, but I don't feel like I should have to be the maid. I'm honestly just waiting for Robert's mom to say wow I really missed having you here to do the dishes and clean the house... (because we don't plan on being back there for like two weeks). I'm not sure how to handle this or what to think about this... So any suggestions would be really helpful. Sorry that this is so long and boring....