wow. 'looks like we're having similar issues. whe it comes to this, i must be objective, though. this is going to be one of the happiest days of her life and it kinda is all about her and what she wants. it sucks but if that's how she wants it, then you should throw a big surprise party for her when she gets back or something. it's hard, i know... sometimes people don't know that the way they are saying something is offensive. when i asked you if i could tag along when you went to ny, you kinda barked "no" at me and i remember feeling really offended and hurt for a few days. but then i figured that it was your trip and i would do whatever i wanted on my own trips. :) i know a wedding is not the same thing but try to see it that way and your friendship will be fine. if you feel a little pissy when you guys are in town, think of how it'll be the millionth time i help someone pick out bridal stuff, after having had THREE failed engagements. we can laugh at that if you want. ;P call me if you need to vent. *hugs*
Hey, I know that it's her wedding and it's all about her, it just frustrated me.. the way she said it. I treid to call her last night, just to let her know how i felt, and I know she's gonna say that she didn't mean it that way and i'm sure she didn't. I just don't want it to be hanging there. We're pretty good about telling eachother when we're pissed or something and it usually gets cleared up pretty quickly. And It's a good thing you didn't make plans with me for NY, since that whole thing was more of a pipe dream. Plus, I get to go to MTL and chill with you instead. (Worked out for the better if you ask me). And I don't know how much wedding stuff we're gonna do, hopefully justa few hours or an afternoon. I've still got shit loads of homework, i'll call you next week. Thanks dude. *hugs*
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sometimes people don't know that the way they are saying something is offensive. when i asked you if i could tag along when you went to ny, you kinda barked "no" at me and i remember feeling really offended and hurt for a few days. but then i figured that it was your trip and i would do whatever i wanted on my own trips. :) i know a wedding is not the same thing but try to see it that way and your friendship will be fine.
if you feel a little pissy when you guys are in town, think of how it'll be the millionth time i help someone pick out bridal stuff, after having had THREE failed engagements. we can laugh at that if you want. ;P
call me if you need to vent.
*hugs*
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I know that it's her wedding and it's all about her, it just frustrated me.. the way she said it. I treid to call her last night, just to let her know how i felt, and I know she's gonna say that she didn't mean it that way and i'm sure she didn't. I just don't want it to be hanging there. We're pretty good about telling eachother when we're pissed or something and it usually gets cleared up pretty quickly.
And It's a good thing you didn't make plans with me for NY, since that whole thing was more of a pipe dream. Plus, I get to go to MTL and chill with you instead. (Worked out for the better if you ask me).
And I don't know how much wedding stuff we're gonna do, hopefully justa few hours or an afternoon.
I've still got shit loads of homework, i'll call you next week.
Thanks dude.
*hugs*
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