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[purplefaeire]

ok so i want to slaughter the whole world right now. and i have a survivor list. i really don't want to be hetero right now. this is so not the time for that part of me to kick in. so courtney and i are not officially together, so it's not technically wrong for my hetero side of me to be kicking in, but still. i didn't want this right now.

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[ryusuke42]

Why don't you want to be hetero? I think you should be whatever makes you happiest, doesn't that make sense? You could always just be "bi" which, I guess, is the best of both worlds.

I take it you've had some pretty awful experiences with guys?

[purplefaeire]

usually when i'm interested in another woman the hetero part of me shuts down. so i've been dating this girl for a while, we're not offcially together, and now i'm like really into a guy friend of mine, and i don't want to be. it scares me. especially cuz i know he wants to be with me..

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[ryusuke42]

Well if you and this girl aren't officially "together" would getting with this guy friend hurt your relationship with her at all?

If yes, then I would say don't risk a relationship that makes you feel good.

If no, you don't have anything to lose.

Don't let percieved sexual-preferences hold you back. Hell, my last girlfriend thought she was "gay" but that didn't stop us from having a really great relationship. (side note: she does still think she's gay, actually, which is strange because we're still kind of dating, which goes to show that sexual-preferences are usually paper-thin)