Then again...friends don't try to run friends lives now do they?
Second. Remember to be urself. Dont change for other people, and dont let others mess with your head. Remember what you want, and not what others want of you. Evaluate your situation. Think of what you want for yourself, and your family, for the future. Consider your options, and pick the smartest one, not the one that seems most appealing.
Sounds an awful like you are trying to tell them how to run their lives. I think you should definately try to give them advice and give them your opinion but not "DO THIS" "DO THAT"...and from what I have read of your journal so far...you think you know your friends but you really don't...you just like to think you do...hmm? maybe i should start a livejournal of my own...
You have no idea what you're talking about. Katie knows her friends a whole hell of a lot better than you think. As her friend I don't see any of her words here as a command. It's obvious that it is advice, and good advice at that. If for some reason Katie doesn't know something about one of her friends it's only because they didn't tell her, if there are only pieces that she knows, its not for lack of attention, but for lack of information. If you truly are "anonymous" (which frankly I don't think you are) then you really have no room to commment because you really don't know Katie, because if you did, you would know that she is there for her friends unlike some people who are too caught up in there own bullshit to realize when a friend is trying to help.
I guess it all depends on how you take it. Interpretation. It could sound either way, I see it as advice. However anyone else wants to see it is their prerogative. Is any of the advice I have given unsuitable though? Have I said anything inapropriate? I do think I know my friends, isnt that all I can do? And if they think different than what I believe they think, then why don't they tell me?
I understand people change, and so do relationships with people. And I'm beginning to see which direction and path I am going to take, and am realizing the people that will help me, and the people I will try to help in return whenever I can. There are some friends that last a lifetime, and those you know. There are some that don't, and those are just people who have changed, and I do not respect ad hominem arguements.
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Second. Remember to be urself. Dont change for other people, and dont let others mess with your head. Remember what you want, and not what others want of you. Evaluate your situation. Think of what you want for yourself, and your family, for the future. Consider your options, and pick the smartest one, not the one that seems most appealing.
Sounds an awful like you are trying to tell them how to run their lives. I think you should definately try to give them advice and give them your opinion but not "DO THIS" "DO THAT"...and from what I have read of your journal so far...you think you know your friends but you really don't...you just like to think you do...hmm? maybe i should start a livejournal of my own...
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I understand people change, and so do relationships with people. And I'm beginning to see which direction and path I am going to take, and am realizing the people that will help me, and the people I will try to help in return whenever I can. There are some friends that last a lifetime, and those you know. There are some that don't, and those are just people who have changed, and I do not respect ad hominem arguements.
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