Romance

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I was talking to Amanda, and we were discussing some of our differences in how we approach a evening at home with our SO. I'm the sort of person who enjoys being snuggled up close to my someone special while watching a movie. We'll be able to talk about the movie later, and there's always time for fooling around before/after the flick.

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Thanks for throwing names around. >.< it wasn't about the romance at all, it was how it made me feel. Theoretically, I should be first on your list at some point, but I never felt that way (not until you decided you were in love with me for real this time). I'm not adverse to sitting down and watching a movie all the way through, though you seemed pretty against doing otherwise. I don't see what the big deal is if you get distracted by your SO while watching the movie. So maybe only half of it gets watched, but you get to spend some quality time with your SO. It doesn't have to be fooling around or making out, it just needs to be time where that person is all there is in the world to you for that moment. Where nothing else matters, not the weather, not what time it is, not how much homework you still need to get done, nothing. I never got that vibe from you, there always seemed to be something else. So that's what I spent the majority of our relationship looking for. It's why we fought, why your pleading was futile, and it's why I

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I refrained from using names in my Facebook note... And this isn't exactly widely read, so I didn't worry about it.

I guess I just don't see the point to sitting down to watch something as long as a movie, and then not watch it all the way through. Then you've got to watch it again, and try to pick up where you left off, or skip ahead (which pretty much would ruin any buildup).

I'm sorry that there's always something going on. I'm not against losing myself in the moment, and I feel that I'm not bad at it. To go back to the movie thing... When we curled up on my couch together, there wasn't often much on my mind besides the time we were spending together. I know you can't really believe me though, and it doesn't really matter anymore.