The Hardest Thing I've Ever Done

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The long saga of Mel Mel and I has finally come to an end. I've never been the one to end a relationship and I gotta tell ya, it feels about the same as being dumped. That is probably because I really did/do care about her. I cared about her enough to know that I am not the one she needs to be with...not right now. I don't know how I can/will move

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[fiercecurls]

A lot of times you still need to think about what it is that you want & why you want it. If YOU were unhappy or not satisfied with the relationship, then being single is the smart alternative. However, if you're just afraid that "you're not the one she needs" - I don't think that's enough of a reason to end it.

Personal Example: I believe that Brandon would be much better off without me & my depression, bulimia, & impulse control disorders. I have told him this numerous times. But it's not up to me to decide what's best for him, HE has to do that. Brandon is very naive and innocent, yet he has still been able to stand up to me and say "It's not my decision to make." Well, that or he just tells me to shut up.

I know I don't know all the details or what it's like- no one knows that besides you two.

If you want to escape- gimme a call.