Comments | qtip912: ramblings of a man in (unrequited) love

qtip912

ramblings of a man in (unrequited) love

Oct 09, 2006 10:00

i am running out of ideas. everything i try to do leaves little, if any, lasting impression on her. i love her so much but i can't make her see it. i don't want to believe that she has no feelings for me anymore. she keeps saying "friends" and everytime it's like a dagger in my heart. i know this other guy, this arturo, can't possibly compare to me ( Read more... )

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lizsname October 9 2006, 16:16:59 UTC

hey, you. i would love the chance to get to talk to you when you are here next week, ok?

i don't know if i'll be of any real help, but i am pretty good at listening : ) which can be a surprising amount of help sometimes.

see you soon!

always,
liz

lizsname October 10 2006, 01:27:42 UTC

i look forward to venting and sleeping in MY guest bed...it's been so long since i've been home. i miss you!

lizsname October 10 2006, 17:00:05 UTC

i miss you, too, cubes. it will be good to have you home, even if it's only for a couple days.

you'll get to meet my puppy!

bbeltgrl October 10 2006, 01:44:43 UTC

I don't know if I'm the right one to say this...not sure if you'll even listen, but don't give up. It seems as if you truely care for her. Keep trying. I know from experience. There were so many times when it seemed like fate was trying to keep Joe and I apart, including having to move our wedding date three times. But if I had given up, I never would have married the man that makes me so happy. So what if you are graduating in a year...long distance can work, if you are willing to work at it, and from the sounds of it you would be. There is nothing saying you wouldn't be together again after graduation.

Hang in there Quentin...don't stop fighting for her!

*HUG*

one last question fiercecurls October 11 2006, 03:22:57 UTC

Before you get the wrong idea here, let me first say that I believe and understand how strongly you feel. But I want you to think about and answer one question- can you see yourself marrying her?

After Jared & I broke up freshman year, my friend Natalie asked me that. My answer was "No." She told me words of wisdom I never forgot- if you can't see yourself marrying him then you're going to break up sometime. There's never a good time.

Re: one last question qtip912 October 11 2006, 14:44:28 UTC

believe it or not, i actually considered that question not too long ago...i still have not come to an answer because i don't know how a new relationship with her would be. based on my old feelings/our old relationship, i would say no. of course, neither of us (@ that time) had much faith in marriages (based on our parents). so i honestly don't know, i think another relationship could be amazing and on a level that i've never had before...i'll just leave it at that.