Perhaps stop listening to SFK!!! You'll be in reverse in a minute.
You and Ali have always been.....fraught. You are both very different people with different life agendas and visions. I don't think that there are any sisters who are actually best friends, it's just not possible because that relationship is too close to ever be best friends - especially whe you are on different pages. I don't know what the solution is but my advice would be to pretend she doesn't exist for a while. If she speaks to you, answer her civilly but basically, like you would someone in the street who you didn't know. If she asks what is up your arse, say nothing, you are perfectly happy. Do not, under any circumstances, get into an argument again, no matter how she trys to draw you in. Get up and walk away, get in the car, do whatever.
Most of all, don't let her bother you. It's like the terrorists. If you let it affect your life, then she has achieved her plan. Get on with life. And remember, its only a simple phone call to a chat and a donation to worthy
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You and Ali have always been.....fraught. You are both very different people with different life agendas and visions. I don't think that there are any sisters who are actually best friends, it's just not possible because that relationship is too close to ever be best friends - especially whe you are on different pages. I don't know what the solution is but my advice would be to pretend she doesn't exist for a while. If she speaks to you, answer her civilly but basically, like you would someone in the street who you didn't know. If she asks what is up your arse, say nothing, you are perfectly happy. Do not, under any circumstances, get into an argument again, no matter how she trys to draw you in. Get up and walk away, get in the car, do whatever.
Most of all, don't let her bother you. It's like the terrorists. If you let it affect your life, then she has achieved her plan. Get on with life. And remember, its only a simple phone call to a chat and a donation to worthy
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