sing the songs of separation

[queenguinevere3]

I'm not pissed off or anything right now but I realize I really don't understand how other people's minds work sometimes. Maybe I'm too sensitive, but i hate it when people use "no offence" in a sentance. For example, "You aren't the best kisser, no offence" or "you look a bit like a clown when you wear that, no offence" or "we're already at the

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[walkmyfaith]

gwen you're not a bad kisser, i can speak from experience, hahahahaha.

[queenguinevere3]

oh yeah he didnt say that :) he said I was the best kisser out of all the girls he's kissed
but still...he didnt mind insulting me as well as complimentng me
(oh...and you're a great kisser too...i envy john...who HAS done it finally right?)

[walkmyfaith]

yes he finally did i thought i told you though?
oh gwen tell him to take those insults and shove them up his butt.

[queenguinevere3]

oooo, was it good????? im so proud of u...going and gettin a boyfriend and actually paying attention to him. heh jk things are good with him
oh i just stopped talking to him...im a good kisser so meh on him

[nebudewantapnut]

Lol, yeah people do do that a lot.
And they only say "no offense" when whatever they have said is offensive...so it doesn't really make sense.
I guess they're just trying to tell the person what they think and don't want to sound mean or rude, but they should think of a better way to say it, b/c "no offense" doesn't really negate the offensive thing they said.

[anonymous]

I think you're right about the "no offense" stuff. Obviously if it's a hurtful thing to say, it'll be offensive so people shouldn't add that little phrase in if they know it's going to upset someone. Alas, I guess I should call myself a hypocrite now though. lol. I've used that phrase a couple of times in my life and I'm trying to use it less oftenly. Anyway, I think it's awesome that you get to go to Virginia. It's always fun to go on trips. I love roadtrips, I don't know why. And I don't get car sick, so thats a plus. Aww, whos this "he" person that gets to go too? Well, whoever he is, I hope it all works out for the best and that you too have fun. Hope you have a safe trip back as well. Ok, now I'll go before I start rambling on and I don't want to get on your nerves. =)

[queenguinevere3]

Mollie-yeah people should just say it nicer...like..."it would've been alittle better if you did this"... "or that would look cuter with that skirt they match really well" etc etc
Liz- nonono, its not surprising you have a boyfriend its surprising you found a guy you like enough to be in a relationship with heh, you're too cool for guys liz!
anonymous person (who isnt annoying heh)-im actually kinda nervoud about the driving part cause we'll probably be bored and he'll think im like boring or something but im excited we getta hang out all weekend and go to a new year's party, maybe I'll have someone to kiss at midnight...even if i dont itll still be fun!

[queenguinevere3]

Aw, I'm sure you'll get that kiss! And of course it'll still be fun. Don't be nervous about the car ride. Just be yourself. lol, I know that phrase is sooo overused, but you know, it's so true! It sucks when people act different just to try to fit in. So be you, and it'll all be awesome. And if he doesn't accept you for who you are, then he is definitely not worth the time. I know, I sound like a broken record, huh? I know you've probably heard all that before. lol. So have I. ^_^ Well, anyways, I don't want this to turn into a long lecture of advice. Ha ha, 'cause God knows I'm not great at giving advice, still I wish I could. Anyway, sorry I'm getting carried away. Thanks for thinking I'm not annoying though! Have fun, be you, smile, laugh, live, ok. Sorry, gone! =)

No offence

[shadowgirll]

I agree with everyone who said it sounds rude to say "no offence" after some comment. It just sounds too hard or something. You can definitely think of a better way to tell someone something you need to tell them than that. I hope no guy actually said "You aren't the best kisser,no offence" to you because I would definitely take offence at that!

You get to take a boy on a trip with you??? Lucky you! I'm lookin' forward to some kissing on NYE myself.

Re: No offence

[queenguinevere3]

Hahaha no actually he said i was a good kisser but still he said smething else and i was like pssh ur a cunt.

Yep! we're gonna go pick him up in less than thirty minutes so im killing time on the computer...im just kinda scared he's not excited about it. heh. but i am sooo...ya