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[quiet_storm33]

I find myself faced with a dilema. No, not typing out a journal entry with half a left thumb (okay, half a left thumb nail, but still). If my typing or spelling sucks for this entry, please excuse it. Anyway, My dilema is my friends

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[anonymous]

I'm not quite sure why you wanted me to read about what a horrible person i am...but i guess you thought it was necessary, as for coming to visit you this summer was concerned, I said i would when i was done with my job...and for the three months that follwed when i was working you kept asking me to take a week off to come see you, and i told you i couldn't, when you have a contract with someone you can't break it, especially when you've grown up with the people who employ you...that being said, i told you i would come when i was finished and you said, don't bother school will be starting right after that, so i'm not quite sure how to take your rant on me cuz you technically t old me not to come...i visited "that piece of shit" twice, yes, however one time i told him, i can't drive up to see you and he said, ok i'll come get you, the other time i was visiting three people, so get your stories straight before you call people pieces of shit over the internet. Also i think that this entry is quite the cop out, if your having a problem

[anonymous]

Morgan, I todl you before going upto visit my FAMILY that that's exactly where i would be. i alsotodl you that i would be bringing up my boyfriend, and that if you wanted to see me and meet him you would have to come to me. i was there to visit family. your work excuse was pretty shitty too. if you really wanted ot see me you should have made the effort as i had asked you to do. i todl you i wouldn;t be going out of my way to drive out to potsdam. i had other things to do for the 2 days i was in the north country. if you want to be pissed atme go ahead, be my guest, but don't call me a "fair weather friend" and expect em to be okay with that. don;t expect me to change. im nto one of those friends that goes to you and asks for help. i am here when you need me and you know that. ive done alli could to be a good friend to you. one little thing and all of a sudden im not? that's just pathetic. and for the record, i went out to your trailer when i was in potsdam. we haven't known each other very long, and since ive been abel

[profjoe14]

I don't get a chance to comment very often, but entries like this always make me feel sad. In this case, I think I know just how you feel, except that my friends were only 10 minutes away from me and still were too "busy" to come see me or let me come over or just hang out for a little while. And my only good friend was working at MIT all summer and my mom wouldn't let me drive to Boston. I guess all I can say is, shit happens. I'm sure everyone has their own reasons for doing the things that they do (or don't do), but let's face it: Times change, people change, and at some point you realize that the people who would die for you then won't even take a few light jabs for you now.

[anonymous]

Well you want to know what we think so I guess it's time for my reply. While there isn't feelings of hatred, or anger here... i supposed frustration would fit. But despite the fact of being frustrated it's good to know how you feel. I guess while you sat there and told me how you felt, i suppose I knew generally how you felt all along. but what could I do about it? I see it as not being able to do much. While working 50+ hours a week during the summer, and trying to maintain a relationship with my family and boyfriend, I rarely saw the girl that I live with let alone any of my friends. While now, having a full time job of Student Teaching, from 6:30-4 five days a week, Working 20 hours for a job, ten hours for a internship, and trying to maintain a relationship with my family and boyfriend, I still don't see the four girls that I live with, let alone ANY of my friends. I get up at 6:30 every morning, and get home... hopefully by 10pm. I am completely exhausted and want nothing more than to sleep when I get home while I have work to do

glASS houses.

[quiet_storm33]

No tracey, you weren't singled out (a pun in and of itself seing as how there are SIX people mentioned) because I didn't ask you to come. I didn't ask you to come because I DON'T CONSIDER YOU TO BE A PART OF MY LIFE! You're not my friend and I thought you were finally gone for good. All the more reason not to make an effort when I call for you? Do me a favor and hold your breath while you sit by the phone

Re: glASS houses.

[quiet_storm33]

is it necessary to not only have a "poor me" mentality, but also feel the need to advertise it and hurt others in the process? what kind of friend does that make you... hmm possibly a thought to ponder...

Re: glASS houses.

[quiet_storm33]

I always find myself pondering why people can't sign their posts

Re: glASS houses.

[quiet_storm33]

For the record, I live in Danbury, CT...recently voted the safest city in the United States and one of the top 5 wealthiest states in the US...rethink your comparison to an armpit. AOL is simply based out of NJ.

~Tracey