Neva thought that a lame ass song would make a girl think like that...lol j/k....Ok Jen, now your talkin dumb. You don't want to give it up just to anybody. That's just stupid. And yes it is a big deal. In a culture that is based on "givin' it up" all the time, it's good to see a girl that don't swing that way. So your looking to do something "big" soon....yeah..that don't sound good....take your time. Do what you want when you feel ready. And if you have that many mixed feelings, then your are really not ready then. Don't be stupid with your "no mans land" k....lol
Jen, I know it hurts, but please stay strong. Just doing something to do it is not the answer. It will mean so much more if you are truly in love when you "give it up." And although I know that it's hard to imagine, love will come to you. You are way too lovable for it not to.
Oh, yeah, by the way, any "big" plans better be consulted with me first! I mean it, Jen. Don't do anything rash. There are people that depend on you and take great joy in your friendship.
Maybe having someone to talk to will help you figure out what would be best for you. If you need to talk, call me. My phone is always on for you!
I feel for ya!3xtreme99September 27 2004, 14:57:39 UTC
Hey sweety,
I feel for ya. I know how it feels like wishing you were with someone. You know that I haven't been in a relationship in quite some time. Don't rush it, it will come when you least expect it. I know that I may come off as if it doesn't really bother me, but I do think about it from time to time. It is just that the timing isn't right. That may not be true with you, I don't know. I know where you coming from on this. I may not have experienced the stuff that you have or may experienced. I have been through some. One of these days it will happen. I just want you to be happy. Especially with yourself. I get ragged all the time about not having a relationship in a while especially by my brother. Don't really care! I just want nothing but the best for ya!
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Oh, yeah, by the way, any "big" plans better be consulted with me first! I mean it, Jen. Don't do anything rash. There are people that depend on you and take great joy in your friendship.
Maybe having someone to talk to will help you figure out what would be best for you. If you need to talk, call me. My phone is always on for you!
Love you,
Shannon
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I feel for ya. I know how it feels like wishing you were with someone. You know that I haven't been in a relationship in quite some time. Don't rush it, it will come when you least expect it. I know that I may come off as if it doesn't really bother me, but I do think about it from time to time. It is just that the timing isn't right. That may not be true with you, I don't know. I know where you coming from on this. I may not have experienced the stuff that you have or may experienced. I have been through some. One of these days it will happen. I just want you to be happy. Especially with yourself. I get ragged all the time about not having a relationship in a while especially by my brother. Don't really care! I just want nothing but the best for ya!
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, AND STAY TRUE!
-MARK
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