The thing is, the fact you're so upset in a post and apologizing to people because you think you are not doing enough or care enough - that shows how much you do care. If you didn't, you wouldn't be posting about it at all or even worry about it.
And just because it's for fandom doesn't mean that it isn't valid or of any worth. If it's something that helps, then you're helping. Not everything we do is large or earthshattering on a general population scale, but that doesn't erase the actions.
Hey, you've helped me a lot since we started talking again. It's true. And I bet you're helping others without noticing it, either. Sometimes the best thing we can do is just live as we are.
I can go and have a weekend where I help people out, but it's for fandom, so it's not worth anything.
And right there I say this is pure self-conscious. You are contributing to something you enjoy, that others enjoy. You are contributing to others' enjoyment, by definition.
You are being very hard on yourself, and I think it's uncalled for. I know how you feel; I hold myself to high standards as well. "Good enough" isn't. It has to be more.
You make a difference, you matter. Take some time for you, every now and then.
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And just because it's for fandom doesn't mean that it isn't valid or of any worth. If it's something that helps, then you're helping. Not everything we do is large or earthshattering on a general population scale, but that doesn't erase the actions.
Hey, you've helped me a lot since we started talking again. It's true. And I bet you're helping others without noticing it, either. Sometimes the best thing we can do is just live as we are.
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And right there I say this is pure self-conscious. You are contributing to something you enjoy, that others enjoy. You are contributing to others' enjoyment, by definition.
You are being very hard on yourself, and I think it's uncalled for. I know how you feel; I hold myself to high standards as well. "Good enough" isn't. It has to be more.
You make a difference, you matter. Take some time for you, every now and then.
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