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[quirina]

Brian lost his job, we have to remove Donovan from day care, because it's not necessary and we can't afford it, but I'm worried about how the abrupt change will affect him. Now Brian is the primary care taker and responsible for cleaning and packing to get "us" out of here by June 3rd our REAL, OFFICIAL, ABSOLUTE move out date. Which means I have

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[faerykin]

*HUGS*

I understand you don't really know me that well. But, if there is anything alendark and I can do for you, please let us know.

I empathize with your situation, and wish there was something I could do to ease your pain.

[quirina]

Thanks, Bianca *kisses* and speaking of you and Evan, I've been fantasizing about a photo shoot I'd like to do with you two for weeks now. No (or very little) nudity, not really sexual, but definitely a tribute to your loving relationship. I'll draw up a couple of conceptual sketches soon so that I can pitch it to you both.

[alendark]

Wow. Thats cool!

(Thanks for the Ego boost) :)

[faerykin]

Aw *blush*

And I second alendark - thank you.

[natalieae]

I'm sorry that these trying times are being made worse by other people. It's very thoughtless of them to take advantage of your hospitality and kindness like they are.

You are a fantastic person, despite whatever whomever is saying about you. I don't think I could have the strength you do in your situation.

I hope things get settled for you soon, so that you can move on with your life.

[quirina]

I don't have the strength, Natalie. I'm so depressed and despondent. Though I'd never kill myself, I've just been wishing lately that something would kill me dead so I didn't have to deal with this pain and chaos anymore. Is that strength? I don't think so, I'd call it utter weakness and being pathetic. I'm just going through the motions and trying to figure out how I can whore myself to support my son.

[natalieae]

I really wish there was something I could do to help.

Making it through each day IS strength.

[alendark]

I just wanna ditto what Faerykin already said. If we can do anything to help, please let us know.

I know we dont know each other very well, but I do consider you a friend and want to see you happy.

P.S.
Please tell me your still coming to FH this weekend?

[quirina]

I almost wasn't... I still don't know if I can justify spending the gas money to get out there when we're so destitute at this point, LOL, but I think I need to do it for my sanity, so the answer is yes. Happy Mother's Day to me, LOL.

[alendark]

If it would help, you can come to Lansing, Leave your car at our house and I will drive the rest of the way. That will save you some gas and it would give me someone to ride to the event with (cause I have a terrible sense of direction and just know I will get lost if I go alone).

I even have my new car that you can ride in. Its spiffy keen an lots of fun.

[quirina]

Thank you for the offer, but I'm supposed to bring Brian, Todd and Erika to the event, too. Problem is we all po'. Otherwise I would absolutely take you up.

[natalieae]

Also, mean people suck!

[quirina]

They aren't mean, they're just thoughtless... and I'm so broken right now every little thing hurts...

[faerykin]

Don't sell yourself short.

Thoughtlessness isn't something to be easily dismissed - and the fact that it is bringing you down makes it an issue that needs to be addressed.

I'd be very pissed if I opened my house to someone and they left it messy without so much as a goodbye.

If you need a shoulder to cry on - alendark was gifted with quite broad ones - and I love going out. :)

[forget_that_day]

i agree!

[kliedel]

You are truly unique and special. You deserve respect in your home and in your life. You give respect where respect is due, why should you stand for any less? It would drive me insane to have someone treat my house like that. I can already see how anal I'm going to be in our new house.

I hope that you know that you have a support system of true friends, whom respect your decisions, whether we agree 100% or not. Your life is your business and no one should proffer advice until they've walked in your shoes. If there's anything we can do, you just let us know.

[quirina]

It's more like people pretending to be my friend and then me finding out later that they're talking shit behind my back. I dunno... maybe I deserve it. I've always tried not to be fake with the people I don't like (I'm at least civil) but I don't hang out with them and then call others to talk about how their ridiculousness. And if that wasn't a word, it is now.