My patience's thinning, I'm on my wit's end

Apr 16, 2012 12:57

Dear Shipper,



One: I love both Yunho and Changmin. Okay, maybe I’m a bit biased to Yunho but Changmin is forever flawless for me. I adore both of them and only wishing them for the best.

Two: I love HoMin. I ship them. I even wrote fics about them. But I’m not delusional. I’m fairly certain that they will get married one day and not to each other. And I sincerely hope that they will be happy with their future spouses.

Three: I don’t like wank. I don’t like people who are disrespectful to others. Be it to Yunho and Changmin or to other shippers.

So listen, I’m just going to say this once:

It’s only a fucking ship. GDI you people. Don’t wank each other for something that’s not even exist. Don’t take it personal.

Seriously this shipwar is taking all of the spazzing sparkles for me. I love HoMin for everything they are, be it their divaness, manliness or everything in between. But fuck you. I can’t even feel the happiness about Yunho’s tears without fearing that some delusional shipper will take this as the proof of Yunho being an uke. Or making comment about how pretty Changmin is without fearing that somebody on tumblr might take it into a shipwar.

And let’s not forget about their sexual objectification. Maybe I’m weird or out of the norm, but constantly spazzing about someone’s moobs can be very annoying. And borderline disrespectful. My heart is pained whenever I see post insinuating the HoMin as a sexual object. Be it Yunho or Changmin.

Dude, I have my own flaws and fault. Yes, I’m a HoMin shipper and my tumblr is filled with pretty Changmin pic. Sometimes I even add comment about him (hell I even write transgender!Changmin fic). But I NEVER put Changmin as a sexual object. I never deny his masculinity and I never take him as a woman. and I hope uke!Ho shipper would do the same thing.

And yes, sometimes I flinched when reading MinHo tumblr/post/fic, but I NEVER rudely call someone a bitch just because he/she has a different opinion. I try at all cost avoid talking down to someone. And I try (how I try) not to make things personal. Internet is not nor will it ever be a good medium to communicate.

I always say this over and over again: Imma leave this ship. But this time I’m serious. I just can’t with this whole thing.

Yunho, you are one of the most amazing figures I’ve known and I’ll forever adore you. Please take care of your adorable dongsaeng, okay?

Yeah I’m a prude, but at least I don’t do rude.



walk on and don't feed the trolls, rants, drama queen here

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