Can't let a whole year go by without at least one LiveJournal entry, can I?

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Some people on student.com recently mentioned my old post on planning a wedding. It's part of rabababa's guide to guys, which I posted here on December 17, 2003. My, how time flies! It's nice that some people thought well of my post.

Someone on student.com posted the following question: "do i deserve forgiveness, does anyone? im not referring to anyone or anything, religious or not in any way, i just mean in geneal E.G. it happened, i regret it, is it time to forget"

Here is my answer:

I believe that forgiveness requires three separate steps:

1. Remorse. You don't deserve ( Read more... )

It's been a year since I last posted, and I don't have anything to post that really needs saying.

Silence is golden.

No news is good news.

A smile is always good. Guys are going to act more confident when the girl is smiling than when she is frowning. A smile is #1 on my list.

Ask him questions about himself. Ask in a way that he can't answer with a simple yes or no. He will know the answer. He will be able to talk about his favorite subject, himself. He will think you are a great ( Read more... )

If you are looking for someone to fulfill all your romantic fantasies, stop. That isn't how love works. Love is a process and a skill. Love is not something that someone else does to you ( Read more... )

It's almost a year since my last livejournal post. This will have to do until I think of something new to write.

If there is no sex (including oral and anal sex), you can date anyone of any age. The age of consent only says how old someone must be to be able legally to consent to sex. If you are under the age of consent, you are not legally qualified to say yes no matter how much you want to. Someone who has sex with a person under the age of consent can be ( Read more... )

I found my old response to a question on SCN about failure. I liked it and decided to post it here.

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You can fail without being a failure. Trying, and failing, and trying again is called courage, not failure.

Advice to a guy on SCN who has just been told: "Let's be friends ( Read more... )