question!!!

[rabiddomfreak]

Seriously, answer this question

Comments

[runaki]

i am a guy and i dont think there is anything wrong with it lol. as long as they gave equal attention to both involved. lol. i dont know how much my opinion counts in this though...rofl

[rabiddomfreak]

but this is what i mean, if you're in a relationship with someone, you want to be. if you want to be with someone else, is it fair to that person you're already with?
it just...seems like if you're in a relationship with someone THAT'S who you're with if you would rather be in a relationship with this other person then be with them instead
and i know if you give them both equal attention is all fine and dandy, but the attention you give them both equally is less than maybe they deserve because they are being spilt

[runaki]

i think that if you are already in a relationship then its wrong but if you havent started with either person and they both agree then why not?

[rabiddomfreak]

i don't know i must just be like a classic relationship person and if you're in a relationship then that's who you want to spend as much time as possible with...so it's like...why be in two? i don't know i still don't think it's fair it's like having a backup relationship and i don't think i would be comfortable in that position, even if it was with another guy ya know? just like i wouldn't be comfortable with it if it was another girl...
i don't know but i know how you feel about it and was pushing this question in the general direction of straight people : )

[koshiyoshi]

I would not date someone if they were already dating any other person, regardless of gender. Not if it's a serious relationship.

[runaki]

but what if it was just starting like you liked these two people and they both like you and all three of you are willing then why nto?

[koshiyoshi]

When you say "willing", what do you mean by that?

[runaki]

willing to date the one person who is dating both. that sounds weird...

[zendegi]

I don't like the idea with it. Relationships involve commitment and its silly to commit to two people. If I was in a relationship I would not share my signifigant other. I'm with you on the whole "classic" thing. It just doesn't feel right. I wouldn't like it at all... in fact I wouldnt tolerate it in a relationship of mine.

[norfbigpimpin]

i b a guy and i would have no problem with it, did you know that david bowie met his wife because they were both dating the same person, interesting fact there

[runaki]

good call! lol