this reminds me of what happened between my best friend and i last year. she was trying so hard to be popular and liked and went after all the boys, and i was content to be myself and not try so hard. our personalities changed, and maybe to her it seemed that i wanted it to be the way it was in middle school, but i didn't. i just wanted her to grow out of her phase. so i stopped talking to her, because she and i weren't getting along. she waited until school started again to call me (almost nine months of not talking), and now we're friends, but i still resent her for waiting so long. anyway. i'm not saying that you're trying hard to be popular or what-not because i don't know the details of the situation, but i do know that you should definitelyabsolutelyimmediately call her, write her, something. fix it while it's still fixable. you'll both regret it later if you leave it the way it is. <3<3<3, ctln. (or don't listen to me. i just wanted to help. :D)
it's not just that she's acting like she wants things to be the same as middle school. she's just .. not growing up. she handles situations immaturely. she doesn't listen to a damn thing i have to say. and i don't know. i just am not sre what i want to deal with right now, yanno?
i see. well then, i guess it's just a matter of whether you want to be friends with her anymore. i just know from experience that if you don't resolve things either way, you'll both have regrets later on. <3, caitlin.
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anyway. i'm not saying that you're trying hard to be popular or what-not because i don't know the details of the situation, but i do know that you should definitelyabsolutelyimmediately call her, write her, something. fix it while it's still fixable. you'll both regret it later if you leave it the way it is.
<3<3<3,
ctln.
(or don't listen to me. i just wanted to help. :D)
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<3,
cassie.
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<3,
caitlin.
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