Well, this is a part of growing up. Your feelings are understandable, and realistically there's no right or wrong way to handle these types of things.
You might want to spend time with them? Talk to them, let them know that you're there for them and you love them. Reinforce how important they are to you and how thankful you are to have them in your life. It would be painful of course, death being the subject and all. But it's all that you really have left.
With your grandma alone that might have been something easier to deal with.
But what's bugging you out is that it's cancer in both of them. Logic can argue that your great grand ma was old, but Jeannie is another situation. It's a painful double wammy of cancer taking out two people at once.
Old age is something you get experience dealing with. Cancer (Unless you were born under the sign) Is so hit and miss random that it takes a bit more effort.
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You might want to spend time with them? Talk to them, let them know that you're there for them and you love them. Reinforce how important they are to you and how thankful you are to have them in your life. It would be painful of course, death being the subject and all. But it's all that you really have left.
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With your grandma alone that might have been something easier to deal with.
But what's bugging you out is that it's cancer in both of them. Logic can argue that your great grand ma was old, but Jeannie is another situation. It's a painful double wammy of cancer taking out two people at once.
Old age is something you get experience dealing with. Cancer (Unless you were born under the sign) Is so hit and miss random that it takes a bit more effort.
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