Comments | rae_la_fai: Time and healing

rae_la_fai

Time and healing

Feb 15, 2004 18:55

Regardless of what happened or how it happened or why it happened...it happened. I know that not all of my actions were the best, and that I failed to trust. I am so grateful for what I learned, but I am tired of the drama. Is it so much to ask to be in a loving, passionate, monogamous, mutually beneficial relationship? I guess for some it is. I ( Read more... )

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wow anonymous February 15 2004, 17:48:37 UTC

thanks for the phone call :)
thanks for the hair cut :)
your absolute lack of consideration for other people, or your ability to pick up a phone when it concerns others' schedules is impressive.
~heather

Re: wow deepestsin February 15 2004, 18:57:24 UTC

Perhaps you should realize that maybe she could possibly be going through some things right now. Perhaps you could be sympathetic. Perhaps you should also consider that her cutting your hair is what is called a "favor".

Re: wow anonymous February 15 2004, 19:14:01 UTC

if you had actually known the situation, i had asked her to cut my hair after i had helped her move her entire room around and gone out of my way to help her out. i could care less about my haircut, what pisses me off is the lack of consideration regarding returning phone calls. she did not return any phone calls today, or on friday before her "time of need". a simple call to say, hey, i dont have time, or i'm not feeling up to it would have been fine, but when it affects my schedule when i could have done it earlier in the day if she had called like a normal, considerate, functioning human being as well as it affecting other things like mandy being sick and having to wait all day to take her to the grocery store because i had revolved my schedule around rachel as she had proposed on friday night... as well as me not being able to spend a sunday evening with my family because i was waiting around for her happy ass to show up, it sure as hell is gonna piss me off. and she should take that into consideration before committing to ( ... )

Re: wow rae_la_fai February 15 2004, 21:41:11 UTC

Heather I understand your upset. And I apologize to have inconvenienced your schedule so. But, no, I really wasn't thinking of anyone but myself. This has been a particularly hard weekend for me. As far as commenting on my love life, I would ask you to refrain. As far as commenting in my lj, well again I would ask you to please refrain. I wasn't keeping track of favors, I am not like that. It seems since you are that I will have to remind you that I previously cut your hair as a favor with absolutely no compensation. I appreciate your help with the bed in my room. You did not however rearrange my entire room. It seems dear that you yourself have a flair for the dramatic, and exaggeration (and yes I only know because I am a tried and true Drama Queen!!!). I also do not feel like doing a favor for someone who does not consider me a friend is high on my list of priorities. You and your lady have made it clear to me that I am just a "roomate", and therefore should expect the same level of consideration from me. A friend/relative gets a ( ... )

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