ok time for a poll

[raelsmar]

cuz i need some major help on this one
leave comments with ur vote

Move out to TN and live with jen as soon as my mom is settled in the new house (january-ish)

- or -

Move on

let me know

kbye

i want to be with her, but the more i weigh everything in our lives right now, its tough, so help me out please

Comments

my opinion

[ragingfire86]

Hey, listen man, I think you 100% deserve her buddy. I don't care who you are, it's not easy being away from your lover that long. If you really, really love her, then I say you should stay with your mom til she gets settled in, then go be with Jen. But that's just my opinion. She's a super amazing person and you soooooo deserve her dude! In my opinion, I say go move with Jen when your mom's settled in. That's just my opinion, but just do what your gut tells ya. If you need to talk, you know damn well you can call me anytime. Take care man.

Brendan

[trinity]

I think you should go be with her cause you're a whiney emo baby when you're not with her, lol

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[naughty_star]

Shawn I think u need to make up ur mind. I love ya dearly but from the last entry u were moving on and when you guys broke up the first two times u both were destroyed and honestly your both killin each other.
I think itd be best for you both to just move on...even if just for now. You both need to get your own lives in order. Then after you both have done that mabye you could try again when it comes that time but now ur both only hurting. I dont know if you could stay close friends because you and her may c other people and I dont know how much more thatll hurt u guys. Even when you get there itd only be confusion and then itd lead to arguements. I think if you love eachother to just move on.

[rancidpunk247]

Sorry to say, but I'm hopping on the "move on" bandwagon. You ever live with a girl before? AND NOT COUNTING YOUR MOM! But seriously, think about it. . LIVING WITH A FEMALE?! It would be chaotic.

[monkees19]

dude, seriously. i can tell u all damn day what to do but whatever i say wont matter. its all up to you, everyones opinion, while it may matter to you, wont factor in your decision. personally i agree with dale, will and lena. but again, does it really matter?

think about that man, i dont mean to sound harsh or too blunt but thats the truth

dude........

[raelsmar]

u know i love you, more than anyone else we know, and everytime i ask for ur opinion it does mean something, and this time was no different, and this time i actually agreed with u dale will and lena, moving out there just to think that it would solve all our problems would be a huge mistake on my part, cuz theres no guaranteeing it would solve anything, so i thank you all for helping me out, including u most of all since u were the first one to help me

thanx kbye