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[rainbowcat16]

Geez, I hate it when I'm wrong about people not being real friends. Of course, it's even worse when I think nothing's wrong, and then I find out my possible gf dumped me behind my back and is dating my cousin. I'm so going emo now.

Wait...my icon is full of bright color.

DANGIT.

Comments

[teriyakiemperor]

Nice icon edit. XD

I've been meaning to ask you some questions about this ex-possible-girlfriend, but I keep forgetting. It's probably too late now, though, since none of my questions would matter anymore. XD;;

On a more serious note, not trusting and realizing that you can is so much better than overtrusting and realizing that you can't. From bad to good is always a more satisfying transition than from good to bad.

[rainbowcat16]

Yeah, you've got a point. Still, if you're like me, who spends a lot of time overanalyzing and overstressing over things of varying or minimal significance, when something happens where bad expectations and uncertainty is proven wrong, you feel bad for feeling that way when it was probably just blown out of proportion. As for the "ex-possible-girlfriend," the only reason I say possible is because we- or at least I- were uncertain as to if that was our relationship yet, though we were dating. Of course, for me, it isn't the fact that she dumped me and chose to start dating my cousin; it was the fact that she didn't bother to tell me. @_@

And thanks. I've been sorta using the RainbowCat icon to signify a more serious mood in my posts, but this is funnier. Still, I wish I had the tools to make more mood-based pics.

[teriyakiemperor]

Well, there's the obvious stress that'll occur a few days after the realization of whichever happened (undertrusting or overtrusting), but in general, the feelings of regret and, I suppose, failure, will fade away pretty quickly as you just readjust yourself. In that situation, it's like being able to relax. In an overtrust situation, on the other hand, you have to tense up. It becomes one of those tough-to-heal scars, you know? Nearly every mention of the overtrusted person's name sparks resentment.

And yeah, I know the feeling all too well, with the possible girlfriend thing. You should be able to recover from it pretty well, though. And like they say, there's plenty of beautiful fish in the sea to catch and one of them is bound to be perfect for you. I guess that would make this one of those non-perfect fish? *shrugshrugs*

And yeah. It'd be nice to have an icon for each mood on the moodlist, don't you think? :' A little hard to keep track of, maybe, but at least it'd be easy to pick what icons to post with.