How do you get over that stump...

[raincry]

I've recently been dealing with an issue I don't understand how to overcome. I don't typically like to go in depth on the subject of my childhood and the atrocity that occured back then but... it is interfering in my sex life. The problem I am having is the reocurring flash of that blue windbreaker being held over my face and that horrible

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[castaside]

My first question would be do you trust him enough to tell him about it?
Second, if you do, then DO. Tell him what's happening and why. I think the only way to get through this is to talk it out with the person who is most directly involved.

Does that help at all?
P.S. I miss you too!

[faolanardal]

well personally i would try to see if i could trigger this while he was around me because maybe then i would have some definate reason as to why this is happening and what is making it happen so that i could stop it but also it probably helps that im sure he understands