A Red 40 Summer-A Public Announcment

[rainedecadence]

I seem to fade in and out in this digital world...but I have nothing to hide anymore

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[gogo_hellkitten]

*BIG HUGS*

I'm so sorry you had to go through this but you seem to be doing very well. Congrats and good luck with your groovy new pad Kitten.

If you ever need me to come there with my "Bitchfork" let me know

^_^

[rainedecadence]

Thanks! I have so much vintage porno in my bedroom its great! Hehehe.

YAY! YAY! & YAY SOME MORE!

[m4b]

I'm SO glad to hear things are working out better for you on thehomefront. Evo and I talk abotu you still, y'know.. In a dammit why can't she move back here! type of way. we sort of have a music thing going.. well, a bit more than sort of :P and would love it if yuo could be a part of it.
if you guys think you could get jobs/place to stay here, we're all for it, seriously.
if not, I'm still damn glad you've got a better life going there now.

size 11 - 3? DAMN!! you always looked good though, you know.. but if you're happier and still healthy, hell YEAH!
we miss you, Lexx. when ya coming to visit?!?!
*huggles*
and I'm sorry you lost someone who was becoming a friend out of this.. but, unfortuinately, the hardest lessons it seems we have to learn on our own. hopefully she'll come around, and you two can be friends again.
we love you :)
never forget that. and come see us dammit!!!

Re: YAY! YAY! & YAY SOME MORE!

[rainedecadence]

Unfortunately, I cant get another vacation until Jan. I had to use my one and only for the year to go to my grandmother's funeral in Cincy.I have to go down there someday. I miss you guys and all my other Georgia pals.

We dont plan on staying in Maine for too long. I'm going to bring him down there one day. He'd probably like it.

*TACKLES*

[pissedandproud]

EEEEEEEEE!! Its my Lil Lex!!! She has returned! EEEEEEEEEEE!!

Re: *TACKLES*

[rainedecadence]

Indeed, Lexx has been resurrected.

[wjsmalley]

Throughout life there will be the reality of pain, but at the same time we must also allow ourselves not to be blinded from the beauty that is in the world around us and within each of us. Sounds like a Hallmark card, I know, but it's true. Dustin is a human being, therefore he is a flawed creature, just like the rest of us. The thing about human beings though, is that they can make choices about what they want to do with their flawed existance and this is important, since we are finite beings. Dustin allowed himself to become a jackass and I doubt it was after you two began to date. You did the right thing though, you realized what was most important in the whole thing, yourself. I'm proud of you for not falling into the trap that so many people do, thinking that their partners abuse them out of love or that they can change them. You're a strong woman and you should feel like one. Relationships are about being with someone you want to share your existance and love with, this must of course must be a fair trade and if it's not the

[rainedecadence]

Thankyou for the support. I do feel strong. It took quite a bit to get through this. I'm still going through it all really.

I think I finally realized what a strong relationship feels like.

[rubicon12]

Dustin sounds like a real douche; karma will take care of him. I'm glad everything is working out for you and you found a guy worthy. *shrugs* I'm glad I'll get to see your icon on my friends list again.

[rainedecadence]

Thanks for the kind words. Dustin is a douche for the most part. I can't deny that thought. But now he's on his own and has his own life I guess. You're right, karma will take care of him. It sure has kicked my ass. I'm glad I'm learning to let go.

[rubicon12]

Letting go is the greatest feeling ever, especially when you let that last finger slip away.