Sorry this is long, but I kind of wanted some advice...

[raisingirl81]

My brother and I used to be close. We are the adopted kids(different moms). He is 11 years older than me. He is the closet to my age out of all my brothers and sisters(I have 7 more). He met my wonderful sister-in-law when I was 8 and they had my wonderful niece by the time i was 13

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[oscariswilde]

Ouch.

I fully agree with you. You have to move on and hope for the best. He sounds like he is living in a fantasy world. Sometimes the bridges are too far burned to be rebuilt and it is a waste of effort to try especially when you aren't really trying which is what he isn't doing. You do your best if you want to befriend someone again. You do everything you can to show that you are truely a new person and hope that they see it, but you don't treat them like he treats you and your sis in law and neice.

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[pluspetitemoi]

A HUGE HUGE hug to you.

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[raisingirl81]

to me?

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[pluspetitemoi]

yes... i read your post... and... thought ya might want a hug.